i think Stephen Batchelor's way of doing Buddhism may appeal to you.
I read Batchelor. I really like a lot of what he has to say. In a way, this is just about labels, I could just as well call myself a buddhist if I really wanted to, which is precisely one reason why I don't do it, because... well.. why put another useless label on my forehead? Just to proudly belong to some more or less virtual community? Nah...
I would like to add another, more general thought: I think that "westernized" mainstream buddhism has a huge publicity issue (if we forget the Dalai Lama fandom for a while, which I really, REALLY cannot take seriously as a form of buddhism).
The problem is: It appeals mostly to a higly educated, probably intelligent audience. So that necessarily limits its impact, especially if you consider its competition. Christianity certainly doesn't require any amount of thinking whatsoever, and neither does Islam. So those will win out by default. And then, once you get into it, you find that there are all those superstitions, which you thought you could get rid of by going into buddhism, but they are there anyway, after all. So even those that might have been drawn to it initially, are often driven out again.
ETA: And also, buddhism seems so accessable at first. Then you discover that daily meditation is pretty hard, and all that loving-kindness, if you take it seriously, might be something of a challenge. So that's one more reason to retreat (pun intended).