Once a cheater always a cheater

[Sunstone]

There are precedents, though. Addicts commonly refer to themselves in this manner, no matter their period of abstinence, because they are recognizing their propensity, and (basically) trying to force themselves to be vigilant.

I would think that people who break their vows of fidelity come in many shapes and sizes and not all of them -- maybe not even a majority of them -- are actually addicted to cheating.

 

[lewisnotmiller]

I would think that people who break their vows of fidelity come in many shapes and sizes and not all of them -- maybe not even a majority of them -- are actually addicted to cheating.

Completely agree.

 

[lewisnotmiller]

Well, I think people who vow to remain faithful to each other should keep their vows. But I also think a lot of people who are not naturally inclined to twenty or thirty years of monogamy make such vows unwisely.

Amen.
We (people) seem all too willing to make vows lightly.

 

[anonymous9887]

Amen.
We (people) seem all too willing to make vows lightly.

Yes I believe that the adults did not properly prepare this generation, nor proper direction. Everybody should be straight up in what they are looking for and that's it. It's the deceitfulness that's the problem.