Good question. Which definition of anything do we follow? Our wishes? Our desires? Our fancies? So it's right and good because we say it's right and good? Let's have cannabis it's a right so we open cannabis stores. Child sex abuse. Many see nothing wrong with it,Who defines the limits and boundaries between what is good and bad, human or not? You? Me? The press? The government? Which party?
Just where do we draw the line but more importantly WHO draws the line and why should we accept their line as what is true, right or best for us!
So we just keep presenting society with endless demands for more and more freedoms to do as we wish and please and then claim victimization when we can't get our own way? Who says we are right or these things are good?jhas
So who's definition are we talking about when we say we want same sex marriage as a human right?
Nature has us procreating over time through the joining of a male to a female not a male to male or female to female. That's the way we are. And humanity is having no problem procreating so the glasses case doesn't stand because it is to assist a failing eye process but procreation is not failing.
For me as a Baha'i , Baha'u'llah appeared to humanity to define these things and our limits so we would know what is best for us. Only God could possibly know exactly what is best.
If I may interject?
To be fair, child sex abuse has scientific backing demonstrating harm. So it really doesn't matter what people's opinions about it are. It's pretty clear why such a thing is frowned upon in modern Western society, although it is actually a relatively recent mindset. The legal marriageable age was
raised back in the early 20th century and we figured out that human development has a period called adolescence only about 70 or so years ago.
The age of acceptable marriageability as defined by many religions in the past were more dictated by the onset of puberty, but that still meant that children, as we define them today, would be getting married. So let's not pretend that religion was against child marriage, it was common worldwide a couple of centuries ago.
Basically science had to come along and say to us, you know just because the menstrual cycle starts, doesn't mean a girl is necessarily emotionally ready for sex or marriage, even if you give them 3 years on top of that (some Jewish and Vedic prescriptions of the past.) Human development is a bit more complicated than that. So society slowly started to respond by not only raising the legal consensual age, but deciding that hey, maybe someone should be legally an adult before they can agree to get married to someone!
So I'd argue that science, longer lifespans (and by default longer childhoods) and a more nuanced understanding of human development were far more involved in society's eventual disgust at child sexual abuse than any so called religious morals were.
Hell child marriage is still an issue for many of us with one foot in an "Eastern" community. To varying degrees of alarming prospects.
Not sure if the Baha'i faith has specific scriptural definitions of what it considers acceptable marriageable ages, though. So I apologize if I'm being unfair to the Baha'is.
Cannabis is. Well Cannabis Oil seems to be one of those "let's see if it can do something good for ailments" things at the moment. So it could work it's way into medical treatment. But it's relatively harmless compared to most recreational drugs. Unless you have an addictive personality, or a predisposition towards schizophrenia apparently.
Same sex marriage is a benefit to society, provides more stability with people, more weddings so more money put into the economy. I really can't see any detriments overall to society. It's a legal state marriage between consenting human adults and that's it really. It doesn't set precedents, it doesn't change anything in the laws (like child marriage or even polygamy would have to do.) I mean when I can just waltz right into a courtroom with any random yahoo over the age of 18 and get married on the spot, it doesn't really say a lot of about any sanctity of marriage under the law now does it? So why deny a gay couple who've been together for 50 years, just because they're both men or both women? Doesn't seem like it would be anyone's business but those two people.
Procreation isn't a prerequisite of legal marriage, no one gets their marriage license taken away because they decide to never have kids and the government isn't going to take away anyone's marriage license just because a gay couple gets married. SSM is really sort of benign and doesn't do anything. If the so called golden rule applies to the religious (Christians specifically in this case) then I can only assume they want me to protest their marriages and make them illegal.