Very nice video. The next video "Vedic Wedding" also is nice. But there was no 'kanya-dana' by the father of the bride. 'Sa[ptapadi' was there but no going around the fire seven times. But then, perhaps the rituals of Gaudiya Vaishnavas are a bit different. We sat from 11 pm to 5 pm for the marriage. There were three intervals for tea (It was cold, February). When we were not doing the parade, we were covered with shawls. The onlookes had brought out their quilts and were watching the proceedings. My wife's maternal uncle was a practicing priests. He kept on shouting at the priests of our two families to do the right rituals and pronounce words correctly.
"For example see below verse from Rigveda where the invocation says “hotAram tva vrunimahe agne vishvebhir A gahi devebhir havyadAtaye | hotAraM tvA
vRuNeemahe || (Rigveda 5.026.04) O Agni, come with all the Gods, come to our sacrificial gift: We
choose thee as Invoking Priest.
Hence kanya-dana does not mean “donating a bride” it rather means ‘the groom is choosing a bride’. Also the groom further gives an explanation why he is choosing a bride. He says that he is choosing a bride “so that he can make the Gods feel happy, so that he can make the society feel happy, so that he can make the bride feel happy, so that he can beget children lawfully (dharma praja).”
Hindu marriage tradition – the real meaning of kanyadana