FatMan said:
That absolutely correct. In this thread alone, we've been told that not flying is "just not an option" for some people, whereas it is certainly an option - albeit maybe not an attractive one.
That's not the point I was making, FatMan. Someone said that "you can just take alternative transportation" and I merely corrected that it's an incorrect assumption to make.
There's always the possibility of just not traveling. Lots of people have that left as their only choice. I don't think we need governmental intevention to remedy all facts of life, nor did I mean to imply any such thing.
Somewhere down the line, people have confused what is a need and what is a luxury to the point that they use incorrect examples of each. Life is a series of choices. And some of the ones we refuse to take may not be chosen for very good reasons, but they are still choices available to us.
The flip side is that people who have no limitations of any sort seem to be blissfully unaware of how easy it would often be to enable those who do have some moderate limitation to have a real life -- just like they do (and take for granted).
I've seen plenty of people in my life decide that they wouldn't budge one inch in their own life, even though it meant 100 others would just have to remain isolated at home.
Oh, it's legal -- but it is moral, or considerate? Hardly.
And to get back on the subject of the guy on the plane -- it seems the problem was he was never asked before to buy a second seat. Seems like someone in the airline has a training issue to deal with. I don't think it's inherently unfair to ask the man to pay for a second seat if the plane is full. If he doesn't like that, then he can get bumped to a later flight that has more room.
But I've also seen too many times in life where "company policy" is used as a hammer against an individual and isn't something that's actually practiced across the board. Whether this is one of those situations, the original article is too vague to really tell.
We've all met people behind the counter at business who treated us ill because we were the wrong gender/color/whatever or just because they felt like throwing their weight around that particular day. And those of us who've worked behind the counter know that there are customers who are stupid and inconsiderate enough to make our jobs more difficult.
For all I know, the customer went off on the guy behind the counter, who was having a bad day, and the situation just got out of hand. It happens.