Actually no she did not! In fact when the daughter came to her with what happened the mother did not believe her. The daughter confided in a friend who told her mother, she then reported it to the police. When the police confronted the mother with the allegations, she still wouldn't believe it at first, until CPS gave her what she (the mother) referred to as a "choice", either the dad leaves or the daughter, older brother and two younger sisters would be taken away, like it really was a choice!!?? Come to find out the father and his sister were sexually abused by their father who had also abused other young children! There were rumors of this man (the 30 something father of 4) and inappropriate behavior with other young girls as well, that's why I called what he did pedophilia. But the mother (woman I dated) insisted he was not a pedophile, but a sex addict! That's how she justified what he did to his own daughter! Her words were "It was the devil that made him addicted to sex and caused him to do what he did". I found out later that she didn't blame him personally for what happened because she thought he was possessed by the devil when he did what he did. She even implied she would have him back if the law would allow him to live in the same house with her and (at that time) her two school aged daughters.
I think this is a very good case for how blind, fundamentalist belief in anything, religion or otherwise is very un-wise. The mother was a daughter of a southern Baptist preacher. She had a very sheltered, controlled, church/Bible centered upbringing (brainwashing) and very strongly believed that Jesus was the only way. So I guess it's easy to see how forgiving her husband for what he did was so easy for her. But as I told her when I found out about all that had happened, " God may forgive him for what he did, but I nor any other man or woman should, ever!"
OBTW she was a Christian Fundamentalist who believed the only true Love between a man and a woman must come through a belief in Jesus and held the fact that my beliefs were not the same as hers against me! In spite of the fact both of her husbands were so called "believers", the 1st being a pedophile (who I think she was still in Love with) and the second who she bragged to me "they dated for a year and never had sex until their wedding night" threatened to divorce her after being married only 2 months moved out 2 months later and divorced her after being married less than 6 months!!??