The collapse can't work becausd your talking about the particle physically propagating in am infinite amount of points which would be faster than the speed of light.
Let's reformulate the above, not so much because it needs it but to ensure I'm understanding you aright.
The "collapse" of the state-vector or wavefunction (same thing) is basically an
ad hoc insertion into the theoretical & mathematical framework that is quantum mechanics. In QM, physical systems are describes as "spread-out" in space without any definite location or any definite physical properties at all, really. Physical properties that we are used to measuring or "observing" in classical physics, esp. position, linear momentum, angular momentum, and energy continue to "exist" in QM, but whereas in classical physics something like momentum would be a "value", in QM it is a mathematical operator which is applied in a mathematical space to a mathematical system that yields
another value.
In order for QM to be the spectacularly successful theory it is, we are required to represent systems as "spread-out", but we never, ever, observe it as such. So on the one hand, if we try to treat "particles" like electrons or photons
as actually being particles, we will always be wrong when we try to predict, model, or conclude (based on experiments) anything. When we describe them as "waves", however, we can not only successfully model quantum systems, but build a great deal of technology that only works given such treatment and make predictions that we've confirmed given such treatment.
The problem, though, is that we never observe waves. Ever. We only ever measure "particles". Thus, once we make any kind of measurement of any quantum system, again the only way we can ever determine anything is if we immediately "collapse" the state-vector/wavefunction and suddenly (and instantaneously) treat it as a "particle".
Simplistically, if we treat quantum systems as "particles" we will always be wrong and modern physics is a bust. But, when we treat them as waves, even though suddenly QM (and extensions of it) are immediately extremely successful but we never find the kind of systems we describe. This fact, this inability to describe quantum systems as particles combined with our inability to measure them as waves, is at the heart of the so-called "collapse" (or "decoherence").
However, this isn't the kind of non-locality that generally attracts much attention. That is, experiments that show two quantum systems interact instantaneously over distances that we've measured at least up to ~16 kilometers (and has no theoretical limit) are different from the ways in which a single wavefuction is said to "collapse".
The trick of space time would allow the particle to really be there, it simply gets trapped in our spacetime,
There is only one spacetime. In both SR and GR, assuming multiple spacetimes basically destroys both of these theories, the motivations for them, and doesn't give us anything other than more questions than we had before either special or general relativity.