I'm going to put things very bluntly. The teaching of the Catholic Chruch is thus: those who die in unrepentant sexual sin will burn in Hell. (Yes, even in the Francis era catechism, that is what the Church officially teaches). Now, if the Bergoglios and the James Martins of the world want to present themselves as believing Catholic clergy then that is what they must believe. (Tiptoeing notwithstanding). If the Catholic Church can no longer bring itself to say that, then it and its whole religion is a fraud.
This is why I almost hate the Catholic Church at this point. The whole thing has been overrun by doublespeaking cowards. No, neither you or America Magazine are going to convince me that Jesus was a secular progressive with the "correct" 21st century opinions on gender and sexuality. I'm not playing that game.