I did read one of the books about the advertising industry long ago, and as you say there is much more to advertising than just simply trying to sell some supposedly superior product. I do see much of it as being pernicious and I would pay for viewing things if a sensible structure was in place, but until then the usual ad-blockers and going elsewhere when they are too insistent works for me.I think banning is really the only solution. Again, your conscious mind can attempt such boycotts, but your unconscious brain is still vulnerable. Sincerely, stick with your banning strategy and don't pretend you're in charge of your unconscious. Our unconscious brains are in control of most of our lives, even though our ego minds don't think so.
I'd recommend a book called "Incognito", by Eagleman, if you want to understand this more.