ftv: I greatly appreciate your questions, willingness to learn, and humility. I will be interested in hearing how your thinking develops on this issue.
I want to back up and provide some background, because of the confusion floating around on the net. It's important to understand that the Theory of Evolution (ToE) is a specific scientific theory in a specific field, Biology. It addresses two main questions: why are there so many different kinds of organisms on earth, how come they're so nifty and well-adapted to their environments. Like all of science, it takes no position on the existence of God, and it is fine to keep your faith that God created all things, and still accept modern science, including ToE. Millions of Biologists do it.
The next thing, before you get to the evidence, which is huge, is to understand what the theory says. Msizer gave a good explanation. If I have time I will restate that for you in even simpler terms.
Once you understand it, we can review the huge tremendous piles of evidence. Meanwhile, I suggest a couple of resources for you.
There are a lot of good books on the subject. One I recommend is Carl Zimmer,
Evolution, the Triumph of an Idea. It's good, lots of cool pictures, and puts the theory in historical context.
There are also a lot of good websites. One good resource is
UC Berkeley.
More later.