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Quitting Smoking

Circle_One

Well-Known Member
So here it is folks. C1 is attempting to quit smoking. I've never really tried before because I've never really wanted to quit, but the other day, I was sitting at the table with Justyce and I was having a cigarette and he started crying. I asked him what was wrong and he said that a couple of days ago, he had read one of the warnings on my cigarette packs and found out all the bad things that could happen to me and he didn't want anything to happen to me and could I please quit.

So here I am, attempting to quit. I went out today and bought that nicorette gum stuff and am going to really try here. For him.

Any tips? Keep me in your thoughts, it's going to be a difficult next couple of weeks, haha.
 

Bishka

Veteran Member
Good luck. Focus on why you are doing it, that will help.

I know several people who have tried to quit. One thing they said helped them was always have something in their mouth, toothbrush, tootpick, gum, etc. Just something to chew on.

I hope you can, I'll keep you in my thoughts.
 

standing_alone

Well-Known Member
Circle_One said:
Any tips?

I've heard that a good way to quit is to simply reduce the number of cigarettes you smoke a day or week - tapering off them. I don't know if it works or not (then again it's different for people), since I only quit once and that was cold turkey and now I smoke again and have no intention of quitting. :D So, perhaps the tapering off thing would be a thing to try - it's also something you could employ along with Nicorette gum and other methods. Don't know if this is helpful or not.
 

Feathers in Hair

World's Tallest Hobbit
I've heard that crunching on carrots can be helpful for the oral comfort that it provides.

I'm hoping the best for you!
 

nightwolf

Member
I am gonna be quitting as well. I have done it a long time ago for 6 months and went back. What helped me was keeping myself busy and staying away from the things that make me want to smoke (like coffee, drinking etc...). It also helped me to do some research and find all the health problems it causes and look into some peoples hard times with cancer and the such, helped make me realize that I did not want to be one of those people. I also sucked on alot of candy. And believe it or not it also helped me to have something held in my fingers like a smoke, like a straw or something.
 

Buttercup

Veteran Member
Wow, good for you C-1. Quitting is definitely tough but you can do it. Have you ever tried nicotine patches?

I've heard that when you are trying to break a bad habit you should replace it with a positive habit. If you don't exercise, I would recommend taking a martial arts class or something else fun that you might enjoy to replace that lost habit. You'll feel better physically/mentally in no time. I think alot of people have no idea how much physical exercise helps mind and body. Helps with depression too if you suffer from that at all.

Do you take vitamins? Also, your local health food store can probably recommend supplements that help with addictions...

Best of luck and keep us posted! :)
 

dawny0826

Mother Heathen
I was successful in quitting cold turkey, actually. But when I quit for good...I was really ready. I had watched my grandfather suffer with lung cancer and I was trying to get pregnant...so I was ready.

I echo the thoughts of others who have posted in that tapering off may be a good thing. If you're truly ready to quit and are a heavy smoker...this may be less of a shocker to your body and maybe your nerves.

I was a heavy smoker and I know for me, had I tapered off...I probably never would have quit. So, I had to quit cold turkey or else I would continued to find an excuse to smoke.

Some people have success with the patch...which is a step down program.

And the latest thing around here is hynosis. My ex-boss's wife smoked more than I did and that's pretty scary...she successfully quit via hypnosis. It's been over a year for her.

You'll find what works for you. I wish you the very best. You CAN do it! :)
 

Circle_One

Well-Known Member
Thanks for the support guys! And you all have some great ideas.

Buttercup, I don't excersize at the moment, but that was my next move. I've decided that I do too many things in my life that make me unhealthy and lazy (and constantly tired), and I want to change my lifestyle somewhat. So I'm quitting those things that I CAN (like smoking and drinking WAY too much Pepsi) and doing things for myself that are healthier, like excersizing and actually starting to eat right.

I know there are certain things that I do that are worse than smoking and not eating healthy, but for the moment, I think quitting smoking will be easier than quitting these other things and hopefully, my partaking in this healthier lifestyle will encourage me to quit these other things.

So yeah, long story short, smoking is my first thing, and joining a gym is my next move, though considering I work in a tobacco store 5 days a week AND DJ at a smoke filled club once a week, I think this is going to be hard, haha.
 

Buttercup

Veteran Member
And hey...give yourself a break if you get grumpy. Don't be too hard on yourself and tell Justyce you might be a bit cranky. :)

When I was quitting i just kept brainwashing myself with all the reasons I didn't want to smoke. I hated the smell, how I felt sometimes while smoking, the cost...blah, blah. And another good thing...once you've not smoked for a couple of weeks, you get confidence you can do it.

One day at a time....
 

Circle_One

Well-Known Member
Ok, so for the record, the Nicorette gum? Not a fan of it. It made my mouth all tingly and burny and I honestly couldn't handle it for more than 10 minutes, and it tells you to chew each piece for half an hour. I'd seriously rather smoke than chew that stuff.

So yeah, going cold turkey now.
 

mr.guy

crapsack
Circle_One said:
Ok, so for the record, the Nicorette gum? Not a fan of it. It made my mouth all tingly and burny and I honestly couldn't handle it for more than 10 minutes, and it tells you to chew each piece for half an hour. I'd seriously rather smoke than chew that stuff.

So yeah, going cold turkey now.
You're not supposed to chew it like regular gum!

Outside of a little soreness, the patch can make life alot easier, imo.
 

robtex

Veteran Member
Circle_One said:
but the other day, I was sitting at the table with Justyce and I was having a cigarette and he started crying. I asked him what was wrong and he said that a couple of days ago, he had read one of the warnings on my cigarette packs and found out all the bad things that could happen to me and he didn't want anything to happen to me and could I please quit.

Nothing like a child to help a mother quit. Justyce sounds like a loving kid. You must be one lucky mom. I had a gf when I was 32 who had a kid. She smoked when she was 18-22 and than quit. When we were dating she smoked one cigarette. Her daughter was sitting on the steps with her and asked, "Mommy what is that?" When she told her daughter her daughter said, "Mommy I want one." She threw the cigarette out the pack out and for the rest of the time I was dating her, 2 more years, didn't smoke.

i have a funny feeling everytime you think of smoking you in the same way are going to see Justyce cry. On a sidenote a guy at my part-time job went to the doctor and got prescribed these "smokeless cigarettes". I don't know what they are called but they have nicotine in them and he intales the white tubes and it makes him feel as though "he has smoked a cigarette".
 

Circle_One

Well-Known Member
Mr. guy, yeah, I know you're not supposed to chew it like regular gum. I followed the little instruction booklet, and yet, still with the tinglies and burnies.

Rob, you're a sweetheart, I am lucky, Justyce is awesome :) I've heard of those smokeless cigarettes things, maybe I'll look into them, thanks :)
 

michel

Administrator Emeritus
Staff member
Circle_One said:
So here it is folks. C1 is attempting to quit smoking. I've never really tried before because I've never really wanted to quit, but the other day, I was sitting at the table with Justyce and I was having a cigarette and he started crying. I asked him what was wrong and he said that a couple of days ago, he had read one of the warnings on my cigarette packs and found out all the bad things that could happen to me and he didn't want anything to happen to me and could I please quit.

So here I am, attempting to quit. I went out today and bought that nicorette gum stuff and am going to really try here. For him.

Any tips? Keep me in your thoughts, it's going to be a difficult next couple of weeks, haha.

I will keep you in my thoughts.

I am one of those really annoying people who gave up smoking easily, after having been a smoker for many years.

I think you are half-way there if you genuinely want to give up; giving up for someone else's sake doesn't usually work, because subconsciously, at any rate, you will be giving up 'grudgingly'.

One trick you could try though (I never needed to, but I believe this sort of idea can help); put a reasonably strong rubber band on your wrist, and whenever the thought of smoking hits you, just pull back that rubber band and 'twang' it hard on yourself.

I am sure that if I could give up, you will be able to............Good luck!:)
 

mr.guy

crapsack
Mr. guy, yeah, I know you're not supposed to chew it like regular gum. I followed the little instruction booklet, and yet, still with the tinglies and burnies.
Sorry. I'm only posting it here because it took me a week to figure that out.
 

Krie

Member
if you want to stop smoking, save up the money that you would use to buy ciggs and buy something that you would like more than ciggs and if you feel like you want to smoke then look at what you bought and remind yourself that you want to buy things you can use instead of buying something to rott your inards :D
 

Circle_One

Well-Known Member
Krie said:
if you want to stop smoking, save up the money that you would use to buy ciggs and buy something that you would like more than ciggs and if you feel like you want to smoke then look at what you bought and remind yourself that you want to buy things you can use instead of buying something to rott your inards :D

I work in a smoke shop, I don't pay for my cigarettes, so this wouldn't help.

Progress report: I've been up for 5 hours and still haven't had one yet. Baby steps, baby steps.
 

Mike182

Flaming Queer
Circle_One said:
Ok, so for the record, the Nicorette gum? Not a fan of it. It made my mouth all tingly and burny and I honestly couldn't handle it for more than 10 minutes, and it tells you to chew each piece for half an hour. I'd seriously rather smoke than chew that stuff.

So yeah, going cold turkey now.

im glad im not the only one who found that ....... i spent £7.00 on a packet of that silly gum, hated it, and brought some more roll ups........ i swear its just gum with tobacco flakes in it *shivers at the thought*

im giving up at the moment, but i only gave up two days ago, so im not having any affects yet........ i think cold turkey is the only way to fly, otherwise i will get addicted to patches.... did anyone see that simpsons episode where Krusty gave up? he was coverd in patches, and that would be me :areyoucra
 
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