Religion itself isn't rape; religion just often enables rape.
rape is about control, about power. religion can be used as a form of control, power. a service to self can't control another when the other doesn't fear, or the service to self doesn't have fear of love. service to self is all about having control of self and other as self.
a person who seeks power will use any means possible to capture and keep control.
fear is the mind killer. a person who fears is in reaction mode, in survival mode. the preservation of self is instinctive and allowable to a point.
but then what if the mind is life eternal. self who can control the mind controls the spice of life.
knowing thyself is knowing other as self is metapsychology.
“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”
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Sun Tzu,
The Art of War