RE: My husband loves both of his daughters a lot, but he isn't their father. Should I tell him?

[Deidre]

Sounds like a made up story, but if it's real...she should tell him, and give him the option of staying. He has a right to know what he's involved with...

 

[Twilight Hue]

Gee, basing love on a lie. Hmm, what could possibly go wrong with that, eh?
Everyone involved deserves to know the truth, but since it has gone on for this long, I'd be inclined to carry on the charade for a few more years until the kids were adults. Then sit everyone down and spill the beans.... then duck and cover... as it will not go well.

Smart. For now, let sleeping dogs lie.

Wait till the kids mature enough to be able at least handle the shock that their father is not their biological father.

 

[columbus]

Sounds like a made up story, but if it's real...she should tell him, and give him the option of staying. He has a right to know what he's involved with...

Why should she do that to the girls? It's not their fault.
And frankly, the girl's real dad married her. He picked this.

By real dad, I mean the man who takes good care of them. Not sperm donor. I have both and I know the difference.
Tom

 

[Deidre]

Smart. For now, let sleeping dogs lie.

Wait till the kids mature enough to be able at least handle the shock that their father is not their biological father.

I actually like this better.