I'm interested to hear what you think is 'right', given that your morality is based on 'apparent reality' and 'patterns of thinking'. Is it, for example, ever right to commit adultery?
The bible says adultery is wrong because it is a sin against god. It harms god. There is no consideration of harm against people, which is a common theme in the bible. You value god's opinions, and glorifying god. I can't value that at all because I don't think your god exists.
What I do value is human well-being. My goal is for the most humans to experience the most things they enjoy, and the fewest things they don't enjoy, with a floor of human rights that can't be violated for anyone even if it would benefit some other humans greatly. Adultery can greatly harm someone emotionally, so it is generally against what I value. In some situations, however, it could benefit everyone involved and should be permissible. It certainly shouldn't be a crime.
I define morality as a two step process. First, identify what you
subjectively value, and what your goals are based on those values. Then identify the
objective facts about reality that dictate the set of actions that will advance or detract from those goals. Morality is both subjective and objective.
If you define morality in terms of your god, then by your definition I cannot be moral. If you subjectively value the opinions of your god, then I can't value that, even if you can point to objective acts that would go along with what you believe your god commands. Still, I hope we can both value human well-being, and that there would be some shared values there so we could come together and agree on certain more specific goals.