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No I'm not okay. I'm already working out how to get to the bridge from the train station.
No I'm not okay. I'm already working out how to get to the bridge from the train station.
Laika, bro, I love you but you have not grasped the nettle at all lol. My grandparents don't visit, they live here and my dad also lives here. They are his parents. He won't work, won't stop drinking, won't look after himself. They buy all his food, clothes et al. He is a disgrace. I love my grandparents to bits.Rival, if your thinking about suicide- its not just over a bottle of wine. At a wild guess its about being made to feel small and insiginficant or a "child" in derogatory sense.
Take a deep breath and step back. Your parents visiting probably brought back some bad memories and your angry at them imposing that on you. You want attention and you want to feel loved so you made the threat to get us to take notice.
The moment you think about what suicide means it passes. Its a desire for escape, but its an illusion. Take a walk, go treat yourself to something nice for lunch and you'll feel better in an hour or two.
Laika, bro, I love you but you have not grasped the nettle at all lol. My grandparents don't visit, they live here and my dad also lives here. They are his parents. He won't work, won't stop drinking, won't look after himself They buy all his food, clothes et al. He is a disgrace. I love my grandparents to bits.
I want to kill myself for myraid reasons. This is just the straw, in a sense. I want a moral, upstanding father. Instead, he is a drunk and no good to me. My mom is a NPD-HPD with no conscience and so on and so on.
I've been considering suicide for a while now and it's becoming more and more doable.
Not right now, but thanks for the offer.Do you want me to ring you so we can talk it over? I have a pay as you go contract and I have £11 on it so it may hold out for a bit. Alternatively your welcome to ring me if you need to.
Not right now, but thanks for the offer.
I get confused when I'm on a computer without AdBlock - Waltons took me to something about sheds before I realised it wasn't you who'd linked it.
What is it you want about a nuclear family? They're not so hot, not every culture does them, we're just conditioned into them in much of the West nowadays. But if you can get that love, and support, and companionship, from your grandparents and your friends and so on?
Sounds like you've got some form of adware.
I have all of one real life friend who I actually see.What is it you want about a nuclear family? They're not so hot, not every culture does them, we're just conditioned into them in much of the West nowadays. But if you can get that love, and support, and companionship, from your grandparents and your friends and so on?
So yesterday I asked my nana to leave a bottle of wine for me, as I cannot buy my own for having no ID, before she and my pa left. She forgot, but asked the neighbour to leave a bottle in the porch. Well, I kept looking in the porch and no wine.
Turns out my alcoholic father had taken it and drunk it.
Even though he knew it wasn't his (he didn't know it was mine, but he also knew it wasn't his)
And he had six bottles of beer bought for him that day.
I am so pissed off. I don't drink wine very regularly, I was so looking forwards to it, I can't buy my own and he had no right.
I mean how hard is it to be moral and not take what's not yours?
I escaped a life of sexual abuse (step-dad) for life with a narcissist (mom) and escaped life with a narcissist for life with a drunk.
What the hell life.
And now you deny me a bottle of vin?
I DON'T UNDERSTAND.
Laika, bro, I love you but you have not grasped the nettle at all lol. My grandparents don't visit, they live here and my dad also lives here. They are his parents. He won't work, won't stop drinking, won't look after himself. They buy all his food, clothes et al. He is a disgrace. I love my grandparents to bits.
I want to kill myself for myraid reasons. This is just the straw, in a sense. I want a moral, upstanding father. Instead, he is a drunk and no good to me. My mom is a NPD-HPD with no conscience and so on and so on.
I've been considering suicide for a while now and it's becoming more and more doable.
I have all of one real life friend who I actually see.
Nuclear families produce a kind of comfort unique to them. Plus I've had one before, it was destroyed, and I want it back. I had two step-sisters and a pretty okay life. I felt like I was part of something, not just drifting in this anomie.
They are quite a way from me and very busy at university & work, unfortunately.On the first thing - dude, you're 21! You'll meet people.
There's no way you can keep your relationships with your step-sisters up? Nuclear families do tend to become less relevant when you move into adulthood anyway. You're kind of in that transition zone right now where adulthood's still new, but having them or not does become less important to you when you get older. Not like it doesn't effect you. But it loses its power to define you and hold you back one way or the other.
They are quite a way from me and very busy at university & work, unfortunately.
Also, I don't want to transition to adulthood. I feel like I've always been an adult, I want someone to take care of me and mollycoddle little Rival. She never had that!
Um, about the defining thing. I want something to define me. I don't exist in a vacuum. I need something to be attached to. We all do, IMO, whether it's faith, family, work, whatever. We do not define ourselves. I need to be part of something bigger.