I always wondered why there are no specific "Thou shalt not rape" and "Thou shalt not enslave" commandments in the Bible.
People
love rules, even LaVey wrote rules. But rules are for people who don't think. If it's comfortable to always behave in the same way, OK, make your own rules. But life is complicated and sooner or later you're going to end up in a situation where your rules aren't enough. That happened e.g. to people with Judeochristian beliefs in every war. Yeah; "Though shalt not kill", but the enemies were approaching and they didnt care about commandments!
The answer to "Is rape allowed in Satanism?" is "Yes, basically anything is allowed!", just as in Atheism, BUT... Satanism is about doing what's best for yourself. Being stupidly selfish is not for the best interest of anyone; Satanist or not. So you must always ask yourself what is the most convenient way to act in every situation. Independently of the Law. If you go around raping women, most people will obviously hate you; especially the victims. Even if you tell them that it was their responsibility to learn self-defense and be protected. You didn't need to rape a woman if there are so many others available and willing to have sex with you. And if you wanted to rape a woman just to injure her and not because of the sex... I think you're insane. How can you possibly get horny with someone you hate?
So is it convenient for people to hate you? On the other hand, is it convenient to do everything that most people wants you to do, just for fear of being left out?
Yes, politicians do all the damage they want and they don't care of being hated. But is that how you really want to live? Isn't it best for a selfish Satanist to make great things for Society, to end up feeling proud? Without going to self-defeating extremes of course. I always wondered why Superman helped people for free
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But why would you care about what people thinks if you're a Satanist? Well you live in Society... Until you become some sort of god, you still depend on other people. You need to buy products or services from someone else, you need to provide products or services to others to earn your living, etc.
About magic, I think it would be more convenient to make a money spell and a handsomeness spell. Or paying for a plastic surgery with the money you got with your money spell. Money usually solves the "no sex because I'm not attractive" problem (Lots of "Old man - young woman" memes come to my mind). You could also make a general sex spell without involving anyone in particular.