I don't know how you define religion but the structure-the practices etc that's in the dictionary are built to be a "foundation of a person's life." Spirituality or however named is where one basis his or her values, morals, and actions on. It's the context and foundation that is religion. Paganism is a religion some religions within Paganism doesn't have the type of devotion most people sneer at when they see gold and bowing to statues in a Catholic Church. Religion (like Spirituality, god, etc) are contextual and personal words rather than chair and table that are strictly defined by how it's shaped.
With the contextual definition in mind:
Not understanding what you're saying here.
What is or do you have a foundation for every action, moral, and value you have or is it haphazard?
If your life isn't based on a foundation(s) of some sort, where do your morals, values, and purpose for actions come from? The answer is your foundation(s). Going by contextual definition of religion, that would be your religion. Why? Because if you indeed
practice-key word-your morals and values that's the same reason behind a person bowing to Mary or Jesus. Atheists etc aren't aliens to Christians and Muslims and so forth. Language can be limiting sometimes but our human drives and instincts and what we define as our wants and needs are not.
I see someone without a foundation just going around doing anything he wants, jumping in front of cars, yelling, hurting himself, and so forth. I'm sure you don't do that? If not, whatever keeps your morals and ethics in check is what "spirituality" and "religion" is. The dictionary definition defines what
some people practice but not all religious practice their religion the way the dictionary defines it. We are in a Christian country; so, our books etc will be influence by Christian and like ethics. My great aunt helped write the Webster's Dictionary, and she is so hard-stone Christian that she didn't want electricity in her house because she wanted to live like Christ.
If you want to call that a religion fine, but it doesn't fit any definition of "religion" that I'm familiar with.
That's fine. If you do have a foundation as mention above, I personal call that spirituality. Words are limiting and we can use whatever words we like. However, religious and irreligious people aren't aliens to each other. I don't see why
both sides see it that way. It's like seeing to humans argue that the other person isn't human
like them. Silly. In my opinion.
Calling something X, X being a long understood term, doesn't necessarily make it X. It's like saying "I am god because I've redefined the definition of "god" to included people exactly like myself." Such playing with words does nothing to help in discussion. Want to call dogs "humans" so you can bring them into a fine restaurant and seat them at your table go ahead, but I highly doubt any restaurant will go along with you.
God is defined by a christian concept in the dictionary. Pagans define god differently. Buddhists believe in gods and they define it differently. That's an "if the definition of X is this,
everyone should believe this one definition."
We have an "agreed" definition on many words, but words are not limiting. Like the F finger is not the F finger (nor called that phrase) in other countries. The OK finger (or phrase) is seen that way, I think in France, as the F finger in the U.S. -focusing on the phrases rather than the handshapes-
Queer means weird. It
also means someone whose homosexual. Homosexual to some people means same-sex orientation others say same-sex action. Some say it's just attraction as in the dictionary. Many homosexuals define it beyond that.
The list can go on.
So we may not choose to call it religion but I feel it's universal that many of us have or would like to have a foundation for their morals, values, etc. It could be spontaneity (whatever strikes ones fancy) or it could be disciplined or devotion.
Language is not strict. People need to give way to the bias they have around certain words. Doesn't make the situation better. It just reinforces the other side's influence. We don't have to redefine the word and call god a chair. However, because spirituality is not strict, we refine the word because it is
personal and as such, it will hold no power over us when we make it personal rather than
seeing religion as someone else's word rather than our own.
Take your time.