Me Myself
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I count the "little" things, I consider someone thinking that if a woman is raped then sometimes she did something to provoke it
No one ever diserves to be raped. That said, sometimes there are things you can do to be cautious and people who care about you will call you on these things.
My parents talk to me about walking to dangerous streets at night and do so very worried. They dont do it because they think I diserve to be robbed but because they know mugging at knife is a reality and also hurting someone because s/he doesnt have money is a reality.
If I went with a rolex and full of bling blings to the bad part of town and I got robbed stabbed and raped, sure, it wouldnt be what I diserved, but it would be my responsibility that I put mysef at such risk EVEN WHEN the stabbing, wounding and being robbed IS NOT.
People concentrate on what they CAN do. I am not a cop. My family is not of cops. Even if we were we cant phone call someone and get the stabbing guy on bars and get all the muggers on bars tomorrow so I can rolex around anywhere I want.
It would be a wonderful world if it was that simple, but because they love me and are to bussy looking at things the way they are instead of farting rainbows and pretending if I dont diserve something then obviously muggers will resect that they will indeed warn me about streets and about taking precautions.
If someone gets mugged here in Guayaquil the first quesiton always is "where?" because we want to know where the muggers are (ultimately the answer is everywhere...) if the person mentions a ====ty part of town and on top of it he was going with expensive cellphones on sight he is giong to be told how much of an idiot he is wether he is a man or a woman and gonna be told it could have been worst.
thats not contempt, that is caring for the person. Yes, for some peole it might be contempt, but in most cases here is actual caring for the person
or if a woman sleeps with a certain amount of men she is dirty, as contempt for women.
Now that is sexism but I wouldnt necessarily say contempt for women in general. Contempt for "sluts" oh yes, totally.
Actually, on monday I was again with a groupI work with in college (for team work homeworks so t say we are students) and again as I talked I show I was amazed by how one of the girls (three in the group, two guys, one being me) showed contempt and belitlement for Cleopatra because she "slept with everyone" and I was like "so what? she as a genius olititian and propaganda woman"
and I got "Oh right, sexism :rolleyes" from here because I had told her before that it is sexism to have different rules of how much sex is acceptable for men than for women.
I am sure she doesnt have contempt for women in general, but does have content for the "slutty" ones.
Which of course, is sad.
or if a woman sleeps with a certain amount of men she is dirty, as contempt for women. Or women being the "gate keepers" of sex, as contempt for women.
They don't necessarily have to do a lot of damage.
I dont even get the gatekeeps thing you mean women tend to withold sex more than men? you think thinking that or knowing that is having contempt for women sorry if I got it wrong I am just not sure what you mean there.