I'm allowed to judge you as much as I want to
Okay but here lies the difference.
The hypermasculine characteristics of figures like Kratos allow the player to experience a power fantasy. Where they personally feel more powerful as an individual.
In the example you have provided the female character is empowered by men's attention.
Do you see how this is not a positive thing?
For example: With characters like Bayonetta or Widowmaker from Overwatch. The feminine seductive trope is supposed to be a tool of manipulation and or power on the side of the woman. They are not empowered by grabbing the man's attention, but what they can use from it.
While I would say Bayonetta is still objectified, there is a distinct difference between these character's sexuality manifesting into individual power and a woman being attractive so a man might want to treat her well.
Do you see this difference?