Evangelicalhumanist said:
But let me ask you, would you consider there to be zero harm in teaching your child that quite a few of their classmates and friends in school are going to burn forever in Hell because they have the wrong religion?
Evil? Yes. Harmful? I'm not so sure.
I guess I see it somewhat differently. To teach a child that others "will burn forever in Hell" is to teach them that God hates those others (you cannot make an argument I would find even vaguely reasonable that says "love sometimes mean condemning someone to eternal, never-ending torment.") And if God hates them, shouldn't that child also hate them?
And when we learn to hate, rather than to perhaps be hurt or angry but eventually forgive out of love, we are diminished.
So I find it harmful.
Evangelicalhumanist said:
Frankly, I find that quite evil. Yet, parents are permitted, you are correct, to do some pretty evil things to their children, like snipping their foreskins painfully when they're too young and helpless to prevent that violent assault.
Harmful? Yes. Evil? Not so sure.
I don't think values should be mandated or restricted by the law, but harmful behavior often (but not always) should be. I can't justify infringing the autonomy of a family because I think certain beliefs are wrong.
Okay -- so now consider, since we're talking male circumcision, female genital mutilation (FGM) or vaginal cutting -- often the removal of the external clitoris, but sometimes also some or all of the labia majora and minora, and even sewing so that eventually very painful intercourse will be the result. In most of the western world, this is certainly banned (yet still happens, under the covers, so-to-speak), even though there are those who argue that their religion demands it. Yet, I know of nowhere where male circumcision -- in the absence of a good medical reason -- of infants is illegal. And it is routinely practiced in many of those western nations. And it is most definitely a religious practice.
What do you think about the idea that children aren't equipped to handle religion? Why not give children a basic education in all the world religions? Is there real substance to the idea that children can't handle religion? Is there is a genuine concern about children being indoctrinated? It seems that it's the adults that are squeamish about religion. If there is a real issue here it seems that more education is better than less. After all, there's no point in keeping sex a secret from teenagers.
If 85% of four year olds believe in Santa, but only 25% of eight year olds believe in Santa, then maybe we need to realize that kids actually do reach an age fairly early on when they are able to maturely handle supernatural beliefs. This idea that we need to ban religion until kids are 16 years old seems to me like the thought worm of a madman with no common sense.
I think earlier in this thread I did speak for the rights of parents, in general, to bring up their children as they see fit. I don't see any way past this, and I am certainly not going to deny that culture is immensely important in human life -- more important, perhaps, than even most people suppose.
But learning is also important, and learning, knowledge, understanding -- can and do lead to cultural change. And that's not a bad thing. While culture is important, that is not the same thing as saying it must be sacrosanct to the point of being static (which it never can be, anyway).
So why don't those of us who think, and who have the ability to write coherently, at least try to help our cultures (including our religions!) think, grow and improve -- to the general benefit of all of humanity?