kadzbiz
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.....teens, right now, are NOT capable of handling serious relationships though...100 years ago...they were
For the most part -- no. The teenager of our day and age are much less mature then they were 100 years ago. Most teenagers of our day do not know how to cook, clean, run a household, etc.
Some valid points raised here in this thread. I agree that teenagers are not very mature these days, in general, but there are exceptions of course because of how and where they are brought up, ie. with lots of responsibility due to a number of reasons.
Now I don't know how mature teens were a century ago because I wasn't alive back then. I don't think the above two were either. If one was to ask someone that is old enough to know, they would possibly say teens were more mature, but it's a very subjective point of view. Kids these days have their minds focused on a lot more things that may or may not be as important as; making sure there is enough wood for the fireplace or seeing to the farm animals or helping with vital home chores.
Another point I would like to raise is with regard to sexual maturity. It is well known that a male's sexual peak is around 18 and a female's is around 30 (I'm only vaguely recalling the ages here).
As far as teens getting married, I don't see why the hurry to get married so soon, even if they truly love each other dearly. I'm not saying that they don't know what they're doing and that they might grow out of love for each other, but it does happen, we do change in our feelings for things as we age and one good point I read in another post is that the brain hasn't fully developed until we're around 22 years old.
I know everybody is different and people can make things work. For those of you who married young, I wish you every success.