I can read pretty fast and this may be my fault, but I think I missed the "I am not God but an envoy" quote from Jesus. Are you confusing "Why do you call me good" with "Don't call me good"?
Well, in the order we meet them in history, first Paul:
1 Corinthians 8:
6 yet for us there is one God, the Father from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ.
or Philippians 2
11 and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
Then in Mark we have:
29 Jesus answered, “The first is, ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one; 30 and you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ [...] 32 And the scribe said to him, “You are right, Teacher; you have truly said that he is one, and there is no other but he;
And Matthew:
20:23 He said to them, “You will drink my cup, but to sit at my right hand and at my left is not mine to grant, but it is for those for whom it has been prepared by my Father.”
and
24:36 “But of that day and hour no one knows, not even the angels of heaven, nor the Son, but the Father only.”
And Luke:
18 And a ruler asked him, “Good Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?” 19 And Jesus said to him, “Why do you call me good? No one is good but God alone.”
And John:
1:18 No one has ever seen God; the only Son, who is in the bosom of the Father, he has made him known.
5:19 “the Son can do nothing of his own accord, but only what he sees the Father doing”
5:30* “I can do nothing on my own authority; [...] I seek not my own will but the will of him who sent me.”
6:38* “For I have come down from heaven, not to do my own will, but the will of him who sent me”
8:42* “I proceeded and came forth from God; I came not of my own accord, but he sent me.”
10:29 “My Father [...] is greater than all”.
14:1 Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me.
14:10* “The words that I say to you I do not speak on my own authority; but the Father who dwells in me does his works.”
14:28 [...] I go to the Father; for the Father is greater than I.
17:3 “And this is eternal life, that they know thee
the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom thou hast sent.”
20:17 “I am ascending to my Father and your Father,
to my God and your God.”
And also:
1Timothy 2:5 For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus
(The ones with the * directly address the 'envoy' point.)
You can ignore Paul if you like, but why are Jesus' plain words not enough for you?
So there is no John 1:1, and the Word wasn't God?
There's a John 1.1 in my copy, but it doesn't say Jesus is God and it doesn't purport to be a statement by Jesus ─ whereas the statements attributed to Jesus in direct speech say repeatedly that Jesus is not God.
1. Is it the person that actually dies for you, or the person who says "The person that is dying for you...they are extremely precious to me!" that shows the greater love?
The quandary isn't mine. It's in the text.
2. Who actually died? Was it Jesus or the person who sent him?
No one died. Jesus was not only still alive when it was all over, but in his glory.
3. How can Jesus show greater love than God who sent him when God is the source of love?
Where does it say that Jesus has greater love than God has?
I think you missed the part where Jesus was crucified, gave up his spirit, and was buried in a tomb. He died blü.
Or perhaps, 'gave up his breath'. But the point is that he wasn't dead in the way you and I will one day be dead. He was back on earth, with his personality intact and some powers added.
Jesus was [...] able to raise his own body up 3 days later, something scripture tells us no man has ever been able to do.
Where does it say that Jesus raised himself? If you look at the words of Jesus I set out above, you'll notice he says he has no other powers than those the Father allows him.
By the way, it wasn't clear to me whether your reply meant you
do regard the NT as authoritative or you don't. Which is it?