O.K., let's go with that. One should not kill babies as a general rule. In the OT, God commands His people to kill people as a general rule.
Therefore, He should not have done that, correct?
I don't believe He commands people to kill as a general rule. The general rule is "Do not kill."
The exception is when He commands us to kill.
So the Torah position is that genocide and infanticide are morally permissible?
The rest of that post explained the answer to this.
So for you, whatever God commands is moral, no matter how horrific. For example, of God commanded you to stab a baby to death, and you did, that would be moral?
Yes. Whatever God commands is moral. Morality is not an absolute, God is the only absolute. Everything else attains its definition from Him. Not just morality, but literally everything. I cannot even say something is horrific because it isn't horrific unless He says it is. It's much broader than you're making it out to be. There is no stopping to say "God has commanded me to do something horrific" because that implies there is some idea of horrific that exists outside of Him, and nothing does.
And even so, just because something is horrific doesn't mean it shouldn't be done. If I see you trying to kill innocent people and I use violence to stop you, I see that as a horrific situation. However, it still has to be done.
Yet in general, one should not kill babies. So if you follow Torah-based morality, you should do what you generally should not do?
No, if you follow Torah-based morality you believe that one should always do what God wants you to do regardless of how you personally feel about it. Torah-based morality is a morality of doing what God wants. It's not a matter of classifying certain actions as good or bad.
I assume you have the very same questions about your god being love
1 John 4:8
He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.*
When the hell did a universal code of morality drop out of the sky that is so obviously clear and candid to every human that we can outright claim something is love without any support?
What does love even mean? Does it have an objective meaning? Or it is just a word we use to describe things we like?
* I know the passage is NT, but would deny this is what he is?
Judaism regards God as indescribable. We are only able to estimate characteristics about Him based on how we perceive His interaction with us. The only thing we can affirmatively say about God is what He gives us in the Torah about Him.
We do see God as a loving God.
What does that mean? For us it means that God gives to us. He loves in that He gives, He gave us life, He gave us Torah, He gave us this Gan Eden in which we live. In return, we show our love by giving back in the form of commandments.
I once heard a lecture by a Rabbi who explained that the root of the word Ahava (love in Hebrew) is shared by the root for the word to give. To love is to give. So can we say that God is love? Can we say that God is give? No, therefore we cannot say He is love. God is loving. He is loving in that He is giving.
To say that an action is "right" or "good" is to say that it is something one should do. I'm asking on what basis do those who criticize the Torah call an action good or bad? On what basis do those who criticize Torah determine what one should or should not do?And is that any less consistent than our system in which what God wants us to do is what one should do?
For instance, we both agree that one should not kill babies. I'm asking why we believe that. I believe I should not kill because God does not want me to kill. The basis for my moral code is what God wants. Why do you believe you should not kill? What is the basis of your moral code?
On the other hand if God commands me to kill, then I would kill because my moral code is based on what God wants. The action itself isn't even a consideration, it's that He wants us to do it that we do it. If we stopped and said "Should we really do what God wants? Is this right?" it demonstrates a lack of belief in the reliability of the system itself.
If one doesn't believe the system is worthwhile then, obviously, the argument is about whether or not the system itself is worthwhile. I'm only seeing this argument for what it is, an argument of the worth of the Torah-system. We can pretend we're arguing the nuances of the Torah itself, but that's not true. No believing person should fall for that. This whole thread is a criticism of the Torah-system itself. To pretend it's about the morality of what the Torah commands is to cover the intent of the argument. The goal is to discredit a person's belief in the system, not discuss the moral consistency of the system.
I don't think we can argue about whether or not the system is consistent until we both agree that the system is worthwhile. Otherwise we should be arguing if the system itself is something we should abide by. That's what this thread is.
The question of the OP is a baiting question.
To reword the OP: "My question is do you think that doing what God says is acceptable and just? If not then are you saying that God the Torah system is invalid."
It's really just a trap that too many people fall into because to actually answer the OP's question itself as it appears is to start an argument one cannot win. Not because of a faulty position, but because the argument is a trap.