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So what is "Marriage"?

dan

Well-Known Member
BUDDY said:
That is not the issue. This statement and the subject of this thread are totally seperate. The issue is, do homosexuals have a right to marry one person that they love under the laws of the United States, just as I have a right to marry one person that I love. I cannot marry multiple people, regardless of my sexual orientation. The law is the same more everyone when it comes to poligamy, regardless of which sex you prefer.
This is an interesting issue, and it always fascinates me to learn what people actually understand of the constitution. You say you have the right to marry someone you love. How does the United States Government define love? I'd appreciate an answer to that question before I continue.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
As I said in another thread, since marriage has historically and traditionally a religious activity, legally sanctioned by the state, then marriage should be correctly defined as sacramental in nature, and not legalistic in nature.

No one has a constitutional "right" to receive Holy Communion. We have a constitutional right to attend and hold membership in a religious organization in which Holy Communion is offered. But no one has the "right" to receive it. Who does and does not receive Holy Communion is left to the discernment and discretion of the Church authority.

Similarly, no one (monogamous heterosexuals included) has the constitutional "right" to be married. Marriage never appears in the First Amendment to the Constitution. Marriage has traditionally been the purview of the Church. We have the constitutional right to attend and hold membership in a religious organization in which marriage is offered. But no one has the "right" to participate in it. Who does and does not marry should be left to the discernment and discretion of the Church authority.

Non-religious people have the opportunity to go to a civil authority and be "legally married." But I'm not so sure that that kind of arrangement could be strictly defined as a "marriage." A "civil union," certainly. But marriage implies an act of God, and an act of God cannot be legislated by this government, nor can the government grant access to an act of God as a constitutional "right."
 

dan

Well-Known Member
sojourner said:
But marriage implies an act of God, and an act of God cannot be legislated by this government, nor can the government grant access to an act of God as a constitutional "right."
So what about the marriages from all the ancient cultures that worshiped trees and cats and the sun, moon and stars? Marriage has existed in almost every culture, pagan or not. Did all these marriages receive God's stamp of approval? What about marriage in countries where atheism is the official religion? China has many more married people than we do, and religion has nothing to do with it.

What about a civil union where a man can't get on the same insurance as his "husband"? What about not being able to visit him in the hospital? What about not getting a tax break? What about not being able to sign anything for or with that spouse? There are many rights afforded married couples that are being denied this demographic.

Again, how does the constitution (or even the U.S. Government) define love?
 

Popeyesays

Well-Known Member
dan said:
So what about the marriages from all the ancient cultures that worshiped trees and cats and the sun, moon and stars? Marriage has existed in almost every culture, pagan or not. Did all these marriages receive God's stamp of approval? What about marriage in countries where atheism is the official religion? China has many more married people than we do, and religion has nothing to do with it.

What about a civil union where a man can't get on the same insurance as his "husband"? What about not being able to visit him in the hospital? What about not getting a tax break? What about not being able to sign anything for or with that spouse? There are many rights afforded married couples that are being denied this demographic.

Again, how does the constitution (or even the U.S. Government) define love?
The constitution does not define love at all. Not even the body of federal law, nor the laws of the states define "love". It is not a legal term.

Regards,
Scott
 

Popeyesays

Well-Known Member
dan said:
So legal marriage must be fulfilling another purpose. What is that purpose?
Sociologically speaking: "Marriage is a relationship between individuals which has formed the foundation of the family for most societies. Marriage can include legal, social, and religious elements. In Western societies, marriage has traditionally been understood as a social contract between a man (husband) and a woman (wife), while in other parts of the world polygamy has been the most common form of marriage" Wikpedia

Regars,
Scott
 

Popeyesays

Well-Known Member
dan said:
What does the government consider the purpose of the family to be?
A personal status, a tax break, a way of finding people, a way of insuring the proper protection of children, a way of amassing capital, a corporation.

Do you know HOW to research anything, or are you just letting me do it for you?

Regards,
Scott
 

wmam

Active Member
Popeyesays said:
A personal status, a tax break, a way of finding people, a way of insuring the proper protection of children, a way of amassing capital, a corporation.

Do you know HOW to research anything, or are you just letting me do it for you?

Regards,
Scott
LOLOLOL....... I think that it is that he wants to know what you know and didn't really think you were looking up what someone else said. LOL:bonk:
 

dan

Well-Known Member
I'm trying to help people break down marriage to its fundamentals and help them see it the way government has to see it. Whether or not gays should be allowed to marry has absolutely nothing to do with morals. Government is not a protector of morals. It has to do with the rights of the people, and I'm progressing to that. You're not saying anything I've not heard before.
 

wmam

Active Member
I see that the Mods and Admins of this site doesn't uphold the rules unless it benifits them and that of there friends so ya'll have fun turning what was meant to be a thread of a innocent question to do about Scripture, only, into whatever you want.

Shalom.
 
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