I don't perceive this. Perhaps your definition of ad hominem extends to such things as taking note of, and criticizing, your cheap debating style? Or dare I call your debating style "cheap" without you taking it personally as an ad hominem? What do you think?
The above exemplifies lashing out instead of addressing issues.
"Cheap" is mere insult, & devoid of real commentary, ie, the worst form of ad hom argument.
I guess I will never be able to convince you of how it cheap of an argument it is --- never mind how often irrelevant it also is -- to ascribe "anger" and other negative emotional and mental states to your debate opponents. And yet, you wantonly accuse others (not just myself!) of launching ad hominems against you!
Note that you were the first (I noted the post#) to make it personal.
I pointed out this violation. Broadening it to unnamed others isn't cromulent.
That strikes me as a genuine criticism of the OP -- genuine in the sense it is straight-forward and substantial, rather than merely a resort to logical fallacies and cheap debate tactics.
Note here that even in apparent return to topic, you still lace it with insults.
This is a willful violation of both the rules & spirit of RF.
A challenge....
I double dog dare you to converse with me, without personal insult, unless I start with the same.
We may be as adamant as we wish, but not make it about the other's faults.
Are you up for it?
You'd find that we can be civil with each other, despite significant disagreement.
However, I happen to disagree with you: I have observed the problem is what I would call, "significantly frequent". Moreover, I think it is more frequently a problem with criticisms of feminists than with most other groups. It seems likely we'll never see eye to eye on this.
There's no need to agree.
To understand others' perspectives is a fine goal.
Your suggestion that feminists have brought this problem upon themselves leaves me sadly shaking my head in disbelief. In the first place, why rush headlong to make it a problem that feminists are responsible for solving? Why not ask those who actually say in irrelevant contexts that "Some feminists are man-haters" to cease and desist?
When animosity is shown, one should expect it in return.
One should not be blind to the consequences of misbehavior.
Turning the tables, should MRAs claim they've not brought upon themselves hostility from feminists?
Second, aren't you in effect justifying those who harp on some feminists being man-haters?
No.
As I said, some criticism is inappropriate, & some is perfectly appropriate.
The latter should not be subsumed into the former.
After all, you are representing them as in some way provoked by feminists -- what other meaning is there to your notion that feminists "reap what they sow"?
Some feminists do indeed provoke it, eg, being too quick to hurl "misogynist" & "rape apologist" at people who clearly aren't, but disagree over some issue. One should not expect to insult others with impunity.
Last, are you really prepared to assert as a genuine fact that the non-sequitur use of "Some feminists are man-haters" is motivated primarily by a desire to payback feminists for their criticisms of, say, men's rights groups? How on earth could you even begin to demonstrate such a wild speculation?
I assert that such a statement would depend upon the intent behind it.
This seems an intent to claim malevolence whether it's there or not.