IF_u_knew
Curious
My Dear Ben... I have given much consideration to the things you, as well as the other posters have stated. It was not until I came back and read the last couple of posts that I was able to understand where my heart is at concerning this; because believe me, I do in my heart feel disgust at the way that woman was humiliated.
I do not think that it is ever okay to humiliate another person who is in honest need of something and you, as well as I can see that this *does* in fact go against the teachings of Tanakh. I do agree with you on that point. And I came to understand the point you were trying to make because of the following two posts:
I know from personal experience and intimate knowledge that G.d does not use humiliation tactics. The tone is not one of admiration at all when he declares she has faith. If Jesus was a prototype of a king, than what he did was very much a bullying tactic. He humiliated her... he did not humble her... she humbled herself; and I do not agree that *THAT* was necessary.
Being a king does not afford one rights as a human being over another... it rather is a responsibility to serve those who come in his path. One who is representative of G.d does *not* uplift themselves to debase another. He made her a laughing stock for those around her... and knowing G.d, it is what does not sit well with me. He is not like that and Jesus failed Him in that sense.
And the following post is what I find sad about Christianity as it is taught....
While this seems to *sound* good... it in actuality shows the crooked perspective of G.d that so many hold to. When that line becomes straight and you see Him for Who He is, you are humbled, but humiliation is certainly not something that you will feel. You are created in His image.. G.d is not a Master... He is a Father. He proved this by giving us free will. He did not make you to grovel and beg... that is the idols most of you worship that keep you in that mind set and away from being the truly wonderful and free person I know that most are.
To admit you are a dog is to deny the great gift you were given called intelligence and to set yourself up for being controlled by someone who *would* seek to humiliate, manipulate, and use you. G.d does not guide His children through humiliation tactics. He guides them through Reason and great Love. You surrender that when you take on the above attitude.
In the end.. I went straight to the Source because I was tired of being told I should feel ashamed and guilty for questioning; I was tired of being given LESS THAN crumbs despite that my heart was desperately searching Him. So, in that sense, I very much agree with you Ben. It really gets to me to hear the kind of talk as the above. I will say this; blind faith really did lead to humiliation and feeling debased (I was just never one to be satisfied with crumbs and being controlled). Knowledge = Life. To me, the latter was more desirable and seemed more a Testament of the True Nature of G.d. Sure enough, it is Truth. Remember... the what we know in Christianity was very much about political power. It is no wonder they would use subtle manipulation tactics to keep people under their thumb.
I do not think that it is ever okay to humiliate another person who is in honest need of something and you, as well as I can see that this *does* in fact go against the teachings of Tanakh. I do agree with you on that point. And I came to understand the point you were trying to make because of the following two posts:
His actual reaction to her humble reply was;
Matt.15:28 Then Jesus answered, "Woman, you have great faith! Your request is granted." And her daughter was healed from that very hour.
That doesn't sound like exasperation to me, it sounds like admiration.
There a numerous possible explanations for why he initially rejected her; maybe he was trying to use the situation to demonstrate the value of humility to his followers?
I know from personal experience and intimate knowledge that G.d does not use humiliation tactics. The tone is not one of admiration at all when he declares she has faith. If Jesus was a prototype of a king, than what he did was very much a bullying tactic. He humiliated her... he did not humble her... she humbled herself; and I do not agree that *THAT* was necessary.
Being a king does not afford one rights as a human being over another... it rather is a responsibility to serve those who come in his path. One who is representative of G.d does *not* uplift themselves to debase another. He made her a laughing stock for those around her... and knowing G.d, it is what does not sit well with me. He is not like that and Jesus failed Him in that sense.
And the following post is what I find sad about Christianity as it is taught....
Ben I do agree with you up to a point. The children was the lost sheep of Israel. The whole point was to show that the gospel was to be given first to the Jews. The woman realized this and was willing to settle for the crumbs from the table. While acknowledgeing this the woman was rewarded for her faith, for she knew any part even a small portion was better than nothing and being without hope. Anything that Jesus offered, even a mere crumb was precious in her sight......
In the Greek the term "dogs" meant a pet dog in the home, We, the dogs, the Gentiles are reaping the crumbs from the Jewish table.....
If I can't sit by my master's side or be on his lap, then this dog will be content to lay at His feet........uppy:
While this seems to *sound* good... it in actuality shows the crooked perspective of G.d that so many hold to. When that line becomes straight and you see Him for Who He is, you are humbled, but humiliation is certainly not something that you will feel. You are created in His image.. G.d is not a Master... He is a Father. He proved this by giving us free will. He did not make you to grovel and beg... that is the idols most of you worship that keep you in that mind set and away from being the truly wonderful and free person I know that most are.
To admit you are a dog is to deny the great gift you were given called intelligence and to set yourself up for being controlled by someone who *would* seek to humiliate, manipulate, and use you. G.d does not guide His children through humiliation tactics. He guides them through Reason and great Love. You surrender that when you take on the above attitude.
In the end.. I went straight to the Source because I was tired of being told I should feel ashamed and guilty for questioning; I was tired of being given LESS THAN crumbs despite that my heart was desperately searching Him. So, in that sense, I very much agree with you Ben. It really gets to me to hear the kind of talk as the above. I will say this; blind faith really did lead to humiliation and feeling debased (I was just never one to be satisfied with crumbs and being controlled). Knowledge = Life. To me, the latter was more desirable and seemed more a Testament of the True Nature of G.d. Sure enough, it is Truth. Remember... the what we know in Christianity was very much about political power. It is no wonder they would use subtle manipulation tactics to keep people under their thumb.
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