Ironic because you are well informed so you have reached for the apple quite a bit in your time. Perhaps the other thing as well, which segways us back to sex. Or not having sex.
Paul's treatise on homosexuality is an extremely concise explication concerning everything we're speaking about. It's brilliance is almost too amazing. Everything Paul says is pure genius and divine revelation compacted in a manner that even today is almost completely opaque as misinterpreted by the majority of readers.
18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness; 19 Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them. 20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
Romans 1:18–20.
We know retroactively, if we've read the whole treatise, that Paul is speaking of same-sex as the rejection of some divine principle Paul is noting above. In Paul's mind, that principle isn't moral or religious; it's philosophical, logical, and theological: human thought (as opposed to non-symbolic thinking) is impossible without the ability to unify invisible, immaterial, ideas, concepts, thoughts, with tangible symbols, mythological emblems, which, this unification, is always the unification of unlike properties implying that only this kind of unification of unlike properties is able to produce living, live, offspring: more human thought.
Language moves in the middle kingdom between the `indefinite’ and the `infinite’; it transforms the indeterminate into a determinate idea, and then holds it within the sphere of finite determinations. So there are in the realm of mythic and religious conceptions `ineffables” of different order, one of which represents the lower limit of verbal expression, the other the upper limit; but between these bounds, which are drawn by the very nature of verbal expression, language can move with perfect freedom, and exhibit all the wealth and concrete exemplification of its creative power.
Ernst Cassirer, Language and Myth.
As we see when we read ahead in Romans chapter one, Paul is claiming that human gender, sacralized in holy matrimony, is the crowning hieophany whereby we codify our great difference from the unspiritual animals of old, precisely when we recognize marriage as the human ritual par excellent since by recognizing human gender, male and female, as biological types of absolute binary difference, i.e., the invisible, versus the visible, man versus woman, we celebrate what we know to be the genesis of our very humanity (the unification of polar opposites) to produce modern man as the spiritual end to the kind of natural evolution that led to apes and peacocks.
Paul's contemporary, Philo, who was familiar with the context Paul uses in his epistles, claimed that "male" represents "immaterial," whereas "female" represents the place the immaterial is housed. The Talmud,
Yoma 2a, calls a man's wife his "house," while the French philosopher and Professor, Jacques Lacan, said that the phallus is always invisible, unseen, when it's busy in its most seminal act. It's always hidden inside the place where that seminal union of invisible and visible takes place; the place Rashi called the "bedchamber" where God is manifest.
Understood in context, Paul makes same-sex marriage a full-frontal attack on man's very soul, which comes from man's ability to unite binary opposites, God/man, Jew/Gentile, male/female, as the sacred ability that literally, in Paul's mind, produces the epiphenomenon of that union of opposites: God.
In Paul's mind, same-sex marriage is therefore demonic in that it sanctifies the state of reality before mankind produced, and then observed, God. In Paul's mind, nothing could be more Godless than to sanctify and sacralize a marriage of non-binary things since that marriage is not only non-productive (it can produce nothing living) but by honoring it and celebrating it society is worshiping, and celebrating, the god of death, and the destruction of all that is truly God:
26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. 28
Romans 1:26–28.
Paul claims it's when a society begins to take the gift of God, the ability to think as humans are able to think, for granted, as though it's natural, mundane, and doesn't require, or produce, God-consciousness, he, God, as almost a joke, gives a majority of the society or civilization over to homosexuality so that the homosexual-phallus, which is invisible in its most seminal act, is hiding, during that act, in gehenna, or what we might call a sewage treatment plant, a sewer.
John