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Thank you for the apology Pah. Please don't think your arguments don't go anywhere. I have changed my opinions about gay people rights, in part, from many of the wonderful posts I have read on this site. The thread that asked for good reasons, other than religous, why there should not be gay marriage?, was enlightening.Pah said:Yeah you're right and I apologize.
That phrase was key just a few years ago to most of the movement. Gays and crossdressers were in fact chanting things like "we're queer and we're here" in direct provocation. But since that time, not that it has disappeared entirely, it is but one tactic of a minority (a really small percentage, I think) of the sexually surpressed. We have seen even on this forum, civil argument go nowhere, religious and secular argument ignored because of the "uckky" factor. I would wager that LGBT is still "in their face" even though they have left the forum.
I have also seen some discrimination between homosexual and transexual. That is a big rift in the movement and I'm afraid I just added to it. Sorry.
But let me plead that there is a time and a place and a degree of "in your face" warranted. I certainly wish diplomacy would cure all injustice but it just doesn't happen often enough. We are fighting politically a strong opponent who thinks nothing of demeaning LGBT and allied supports as trash and not fit for basic citizenship. The argument is rooted in church dogma and has latched on to political power. The basic motive can never be attacked but it must be overcome somehow. Don't deny a tool in the bag of actions that can take place. There comes a time when a person must stand and say "I'm here, this is me, get over it" Let that happen or at least don't disparage it.
I think that maybe 20% of all people will fight gay rights no matter what you say or do. But that leaves the other 80% of us who are open minded and even more so, open hearted. In my case, my heart opened before my mind did.