So when a child is physically assaulted it's a "learning experience", but not for an adult?
You're like 2 steps ahead of me.
So you define bullying as a physical assault? If my child was beaten by a gang, I would consider that a crime and as a parent, I would deal with it as a crime.
Again, this is our own conflicting definitions of what is considered bullying, less or even more than. I see more and more that this subject is a huge grey zone for all of us.
Your point is made under your own assumptions, but I don't think you've read through all my comments to understand my assumptions.