There are two gods' fight going on. The satan fights the God. God is more powerful than satan, but satan uses civilians to attack God. Because God loves civilians. So, the compromises happen. Without them the satan will kill many civilians.
So you view humans as pawns in God's war with Satan? It's more important to God to have a war with the Devil, than to spare us the colleterial damage caused by it, because He is unable or unwilling to withdraw from a fight where there is no contest to begin with?
This does not sound like any love as I recognize it, nor does it sound very pro-life either. It sounds more like
pro-war, all ego-based fighting, to be honest. That doesn't match my views about God at all.
To get closer to people the Jesus has used alcohol.
You have to explain this. Do you believe people who drink alcohol are trying to know God better?
Yes, if you can. But it is your decision, the priest does not force you to do right thing.
You believe the priest is infallible, and might not himself be mistaken, or just speaking from his own personal human points of view, no better nor worse than your own?
They could lie. The satan is the liar. So, the sinners can lie. Can lie to themselves.
Scripture teaches that if they are sincerely convinced in their own minds, then they are not lying before God. They are being truthful before God. And their truth, may not be your truth. Do you not understand that from the Scriptures?