Is this disrespecting the flag, the anthem, the military? Is it unpatriotic? Or do you support this protest?
I don't think it's disrespectful or unpatriotic.
Disrespectful would be doing something like turning your back, making an obviously rude gesture (middle finger, spitting), or something like that, IMO. I know a couple of veterans very well - high ranking Green Berets - who have said they also perceive no disrespect.
I also don't think it's disrespectful to fans. It doesn't change their experience or take any more time, or devalue their dollar. Entertainers are individuals, not scripted automatons.
NFL players as employees would need to deal with their employers - who seem to obviously support their players in this case. I saw some chatter about players' contracts and rules - I think the only rule regarding players and the anthem is that they are all supposed to be on the field. It doesn't say what they are supposed to be doing. (
http://www.11alive.com/.../verify-are-nfl.../478347794)
NFL players as entertainers are using their most public venue to make a quiet statement about something important to them. I've got white privilege all over me. Who am I to say that their complaint is invalid? I can't, because it is valid.
So to be able to make their point, they need to be able to do it in a public venue with an audience.
If a protest or symbolic act doesn't get attention and get people talking, it's ineffective. It might have stayed much smaller and we wouldn't even be talking about it right now, but once the president decided to say they should be fired, call them sons of b*****s, etc - the focus had to shift from their original purpose and toward teams unifying to show support for their teammates' right to peacefully and respectfully protest. I don't think anyone initially wanted to make this about a politician or partisanship. It's big and we're all talking about an important thing, but the wrong thing.
We should be talking about how safely and effectively diffuse racial tension between law enforcement and citizens. Is it training for law enforcement? Do they need more training in h2h tactics and non-deadly force? Better psychological screening to find the most-likely-to-snap folks? I think the vast majority of law enforcement agents are good guys - but there are some bad ones, just like everywhere.
Is there anything that citizens, all of us, can do in situations when they start going off the rails to ease tension? It's very easy to Monday morning quarterback situations we've seen on TV - "I would never do that", "he should have done this", etc - but in a fast-moving, high-stress confrontation when the wrong decision could mean that someone dies, things are moving too fast and under too much stress, I would think, to make good decisions. I don't know what the answer is, but the question definitely needs attention!