McBell
Unbound
So a child who self blames is committing child abuse?Something which is physically and/or mentally discomforting for the child and has emotional or physical repercussions: flashbacks, self-blame, and so on. This would exclude creationism because creationists can live perfectly happy lives without worrying.
Who is the abuser when it comes to flashbacks?
What if the flash backs cause happiness and or comforts the child?
Given your presented "creationists can live perfectly happy lives without worrying" it seems to me you are being quite selective with your definition, application of your definition, or both.