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Jesus in me
144,000 adult male Jewish virgins (not "defiled" themselves with women)? That impossibility is what you wind up when you start taking the Bible literally.
And, of course, the word "defile" is objectionable all on its own.
I believe your objection is based on the concept that women are fine and wouldn't defile a man. However the word is not about the women but about the men. They are men not coupled with women so they are purely men. When a man is coupled he is not his own man anymore.