islamicanswers.webs said:
not all hadith are accurate. it depends on the source of the hadith. each hadith is ranked in accuracy by the source it came from.
Was it a teaching of Muhammad?
I don't know, and I can't attest to it, one way or another. But all of these hadiths are supposed to be his teachings.
Regardless of how accurate each hadith is, what do you think of marriage of a person to a virgin?
Do sex not to come to mind? Consummation of relationship between a man and a woman?
But in Paradise, the so-called martyr will get 72 virgins or
beautiful women.
To me, it was written by man with a mind on sex. A sexual fantasy if you ask me.
But, there is something that is nagging at me, about the whole 72-virgin thing.
There's a metaphor, which you may know already:
Add a drop of black paint to bucketful of white paint, and then it will always be grey. The white paint is no longer white.
To me, adding impurity to purity will make pure substance impure.
Martyr or not, if the person had sex on earth, then he could never be considered as pure. So if Paradise is a perfect place or abode for people being near god, why would he let a defiled man, who may have already had wife, hence already had sex, to have 72 pure companions? Mixing an impure man with purity would actually lessen the purity of those 72 companions.