Currently the death rate is at 100 percent - so death is something we must all accept. Sickness usually precedes death and eventually causes death (as does injury, of course).
But you're missing the point of my post. I didn't say that prayer or God gives us an escape from death or suffering. What I am saying is that God's plan may include suffering, but it can be for the overall good in a situation - and we can't see the big picture from where we're standing.
I can think of numerous situations in my own life in which I learned so much from my own suffering that I consider the suffering to actually be a blessing. I became a better person for it.
And you seem to be missing the point of my post as well. Your daughter, according to you, was spared because of this plan. On the other hand, my girlfriend's father was not spared, again, according to you, because of this plan. So what you're saying is that sometimes God saves lives according to his will, and sometimes he takes lives according to his will. Either way, it's for a greater purpose set by him even if we don't understand it at first.
My question is: if this is the case, then what is the difference between God and chance? Since you don't know his reasoning, it makes no difference, so there might as well not be any reasoning. Sometimes God allows people to die for some reason that we don't know and sometimes God does not allow people to die for some reason we don't know is exactly the same, in reality, as saying sometimes people die for no reason and sometimes people survive for no reason.
God, by your reckoning, is no better nor more reliable than chance with regards to people's lives.
That's not what I believe at all - that may be what YOU believe but not me. I believe that God uses events and situations in our lives to accomplish His will. I believe that we can become better people by being attune to what He is trying to teach us through our circumstances. When we learn His wisdom, we can then help others in similar circumstances. "Be still and know that I am God," is a great concept. It's a form of submission that has great benefits - not the least of which is a profound inner peace, even in the midst of great chaos and even heartbreak.
I never said that's what you believe - I stated that it's my analysis of your belief. See above.
Nothing could be further from the truth. God allows us free will, and with that freedom comes responsibility and consequences. But God also uses our will, our choices, our circumstances to accomplish His greater will. I trust God completely. I can say that with such assurance - and that assurance is in itself a great blessing in my life.
But I don't expect you to understand where I'm coming from on that.
I never said anything about human free will, I'm talking about the will of God. You have said that God allows people to die for reasons we may never understand, and allows people to live for reasons we may never understand. I put it to you that, were this true, God would be an abhorrent being worthy of nothing more than contempt. Allowing people to suffer and die and others not to for no discernible reason other than your own indecipherable whim is a horrendous thing for any being to do.
So, either God exists and allows people to suffer for no reason apparent to them - in which case he a monster, or these things are just a result of chance. From everything you've said so far, I find both God and pure chance to be almost entirely the same.
I believe that God is merciful and infinitely wise. I believe that He loves His children - more than I love my own children. I believe that He listens to our prayers and has mercy on us - even when our will and our desires don't mesh with His. But during prayer and meditation, He can also work on our hearts and lead us to wisdom that we didn't possess until we quieted ourselves and truly listened to Him.
That's a lot more than simply "feeling better." Prayer and meditation helps me make better decisions in my life and those decisions impact my family, my friends, my co workers, and my customers.
So, prayer is just like thinking then?
You may be right, but your arguments certainly haven't convinced me. So - thanks for the advice but I feel confident in my belief that God is in control of His universe. Carry on, though - it's not up to me to convince you otherwise. I'm just sharing my personal experiences and beliefs with you.
I have no objections to people believing in a God, I just get riled whenever people start talking about how God saved their son/daughter/friend/neighbor, etc. which is pretty understandable considering the amount of suffering I encounter on a daily basis just within my close circle of friends alone. You must understand that when people you care about are hurt or killed in the most meaningless way, it can be rather annoying when somebody comes along saying that someone they care about got an exemption from suffering from God. Having been to some of the poorest places on earth, I can tell you straight that the vast majority of human suffering does not educate, inform or enlighten those who are struck by it. To say that such a thing is not only planned for, but potentially
prevented by a God who somehow deems so many people of not worth saving makes me nothing but contemptible for the entire notion of such a God and sick to the back teeth of the idea of such a horrendously foul, ignorant, selfish and utterly malevolent being could be allowed to exist.
It's worth noting at this point that the issue I take is not with your or your personal beliefs - it's a long standing feud I've been having with the God concept all my life, and I tend to take a pretty firm stance on it. I apologize if you've taken anything I've said so far as personal in any way.
Like I said, it's not up to me to convince you to believe otherwise. However, thanks for interacting with me on the subject. I always enjoy the opportunity to share my faith with others, ESPECIALLY when ASKED to share it. Beats the heck out of standing on a soapbox on the town square on a summer afternoon.
I hope you don't think I'm trying to convince you either. I guess I'm just trying to show you how an atheist (or, at least, myself) might view your statements and your belief, rather than try to refute your beliefs themselves. Consider my posts a counter-point.
I've always wanted to get into an actual debate with a religious person, but so few are willing in person. Ironically, the most available for such discussions are usually the most reserved theists, while those who refuse to listen or tend to walk away as soon as a counter-point is raised tend to the far more outspoken theists. Street preachers being the worst, of course.