If we are talking love between two people, we don't choose that we love that person over another person. But love is not written in stone, it can change as well, as we as humans changes our personality throughout the years, get to know each other better and so forth. But just as with us not choosing who we love, we don't choose what causes us to no longer love someone. Which makes it an unguided process.
Of course, when you say love, I don't know what you mean, other than it's subjective to you, and the person next to you, and so on.
I don't believe in that view of love. Love, according to the Bible, is a perfect bond of union. It doesn't look for its own interest... among other things. It is an aspect of the fruit (what is produced) of God's spirit.
That's the love I know about, and understand.
So if a person really has love, for another, they never grow out of love. What happens, is that selfishness - which is in opposition to love, move one or both persons to act contrary to what bonds friendships, or relationships. For example, in a marriage, there may be unfaithfulness, and so on.
These are not random processes, but based on a person's ability to make choices.
A choice, is a mental process - not a random process.
Sure, I can. Especially when it is subjective, as I can look at what I find to be morally right or wrong and compare that with other peoples moral standards. I can use my own criteria to decide whether I find my own better or worse than someone else.
Sure you can, but its irrelevant. In other words, "Who cares." Not meaning that in a bad way, but really, people would view that as your viewpoint... nothing more.
For Christians, there is objective morality. We believe that's why many people have similar views on right and wrong, when it comes to deliberate, willful, murder, for example.
Animals don't care about that.
So, it is not subjective, or a random process of nature.
What it does not mean, is that just because I think they are better that they also are. That is why we change our moral standards over time.
So if I think it is morally right to hit babies that cry, because I believe it will be good for them in the long run or something. Surely anyone else, could question and argue against such statement and why it would be morally wrong.
And if I were reasonable and listen to their argument, I would agree with them. It doesn't however mean that it is morally wrong objectively. But when we are living in societies as we do, we tend to work out moral standards as a group rather than individually. Which is why people shares these ideas and might disagree with how certain things are done in other societies.
I agree, that it can be difficult working out what is right, or wrong... very difficult, in fact.
That is why I like the illustration some use, to show how that problem is solved.
A person who designs a complex object, reasonably concludes that not everyone would know how to use it properly, and take care of it well, so as to benefit from it's maximum "lifetime". So he creates a booklet of instructions - a manual - that the youngest user, can follow, and apply.
Likewise, the creator of life, knows that humans are complex. Our brain is referred to as, "the most complex organ in the universe". However, our designer knows that life itself is complex. Hence, having vast superior wisdom, he created a manual of instructions, to guide us to live long, meaningful, and peaceful lives.
Some may object, and say the manual is confusing, yet why don't millions think it is? If it were, everyone would agree.
We have to appreciate that with any booklet of instructions, there exist people who think they know better, and would prefer to follow their own knowledge and understanding, rather than read "some book"
Some people don't even like reading.
It have nothing to do with being close minded, rather it makes a lot of sense.
Look back in time before science really exploded, where lots of things that couldn't be explained by a natural cause, were done so by the means of the supernatural. If people were to accept such explanations there would be no progress at all.
I don't think it is fair to use superstitious people, or superstition, as an example, to contrast science with belief. Much of science is still belief, and despite science, there is still a lot - I mean A LOT (not shouting
) of superstitious people, and beliefs.
So, I don't see how that is a good example.
There are people who believe in the supernatural to this day, and they don't find it conflicts with modern science.
For example...
Over three thousand yeas before modern science, believers in the supernatural, knew of medicine, hygiene, and other scientific knowledge, only now being discovered.
There are many. You probably heard this one, many times. While many though the earth must have been supported on something, those who believe in the God of Abraham, knew that the earth was suspended on nothing.
Precipitation was a known fact... over thirty centuries.
Imagine going to the doctor and you telling him that you have a headache. As a reply he say that it could be due to high blood pressure, but on the other side, you might be possessed by a demon and therefore have better chances seeking out an exorcist instead, he is not really sure.
Imaging hearing a scientist tell you, "We don't see it happen, but it could happen. There is no reason to think it couldn't happen."
Both are making assumptions, without having facts.
However, we could test the supernatural hypothesis.
Say, someone complains about demonic possession. They described these events (there are many, which I won't get into).
Say...
1) there are witnesses, who confirm that these events are true.
2) a person recommends studying the Bible, and removing, and destroying anything associated with divination (witchcraft, voodoo, etc.)
See Acts 19:11-20
3) time and time again, these persons, after a period of time, no longer experience these events, and this too is witnessed.
Have we done a fair test, would you say? How do you explain this with naturalism?
Along with that, what do you consider to be a natural explanation for this...
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Each one of these pieces (sorry I didn't put all the pieces. I didn't realize they were so large, before uploading)) is held be eleven people, in eleven different countries around the world.
These persons, have never met, but they are all craftsmen, and they made each crafted piece, without an image (template), but from the mind, from scratch.
Collecting these pieces, and combining them, produces this result.
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What natural explanation do you suggest?
By approaching things from a natural perspective and within its limitation and demanding that these requires evidence, we can remove or limit the amount of wrong ideas and guesses. Which is why it makes perfect sense to do so.
And I bet, that the detective you are referring to, only hold this belief when it comes to investigating the bible and Jesus and not his professional career, as he would be fired almost instantly, were he to start investigating crime scenes with the supernatural being equal explanations as to that of natural explanations.
That does not mean that supernatural things does not exists, but to not accept it as reasonable explanation, does not make one close minded, but sceptical, which is a good thing.
So the detectives that have investigated paranormal activity, and the psychics have all been fired, and are now working at Hollywood? No Nimos.
Anything can be investigated without taking a closed minded approach, by starting with a presumption, that what we don't understand is supernatural.
That has changed in the minds of many scientists.