Good advice, but in the real world which I inhabit, that would be impossible. I am changing myself every day of my life. If I waited until I was 'changed', it would be too late to try to change the world.
That's fine, your definition of what is 'real' is different though. There is great irony behind the real changeless peace that passes understanding, fwiw here are just a few observations.
The 'real' to my understanding is changeless, the 'unreal' is the ever changing temporary transitional moments of time/space movement,..i.e. maya!
Iow, if something is really real, it doesn 't change....ever, otoh if something changes, than the reality that something was no longer is and therefore was not really real to begin with.
The one indivisible changeless reality depends on eternal change of its differentiated aspects for its stasis.
The Tao that is spoken of is not the eternal changeless Tao.
From the eternal changeless Tao comes the one, the Tao that involves changes.
From the one comes the two. the ying and the yang.
From the two come the three, from the three the ten, from the ten the ten thousand things (infinity).
When 'I' am at peace, it is because my life is in balance, nothing lacking, nothing in excess.
When 'I' am activity, it is because something missing is being sought, or an attempt is being made to avoid something not wanted.
When 'I' am at peace, there is tremendous movement of internal forces in a harmonious 'dance' that maintains the stasis of the whole.
Aummmm...
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Chanting OM