Which is why King and Scuba refuse to answer simple questions. They want to divert the focus or make it personal, anything to get away from answering a straight forward question. In other words, they have no scholarship to back up their argument so they either quit posting and run away or they refuse to address the issues you raised because they know if they did, they would lose the debate.Trying to turn the question around on me when you're the one refusing to answer directly? Why would I be trying to justify it when I'm saying that you can't do it?
You're failing to see the point. You are saying that all things are allowed and no rules should be followed as long as there's love. Thus, I'm asking you if the rules against such sexual relations are still forbidden if there's no violation of "love" involved. You have yet to define "LOVE".
They're not red herrings at all. It's quite telling that you so stubbornly refuse to answer these simple questions. There's a reason I ask them and there's a reason you refuse to answer them. They prove your concept wrong dead in the water.
Ah, so it's now about Sacrificial love. That's great. But the concept remains. You accuse me left and right of being a "Legalist", so when I ask you if certain behaviors which are outlawed by "legalism" should be allowed, you duck and dodge.
I would caution you against making the argument personal beyond what the argument dictates such as asking you why you refuse to make a statement about whether it's wrong to molest animals, which you strangely never give an answer to.
It's a simple question, if you love your camel is it OK to have sex with it?