Neo Deist
Th.D. & D.Div. h.c.
Instead, I'd try to convince myself to listen to the next candidate, to try and judge the likelihood that what they say represents what they do, and try to force myself to make a decision based on that, deliberately swallowing down some of the baggage we all carry in order to do so (in my case including the fact that my parents would NEVER vote right).
Unfortunately, many Americans don't do that. They buy into the media frenzy and ride on bandwagons. But you (and others) are right in saying that there are extremes on both sides.
As soon as I take over, throw the extremists into a dungeon (or at least a gladiatorial arena), and outlaw stupidity, all will be made right.