I thought I would breakout my sources for my thoughts on this post...all of this is a response to the notion that god has been or ever can be "proven" except as a self-referential point of rational philosophy or in a rarified psychological experience which defies reproducibility...
God, as the creator of all, is also the destroyer. Gods creation is amoral. If we give up the notion that God is all-powerful, then God might be moral.
My common sense interpretation of the Bible's stories...with a touch of Hinduism for seasoning.
God creates complex, adaptive systems poised on the edge of chaos. The only way, in our Universe, order survives is in it can withstand some measure of chaos. In fact all natural order arises from a dance with chaos. Artificial order is only as permanent as the next encounter with chaos.
Sort of a Stuart Kauffman
Reinventing the Sacred meets John Briggs
Turbulent Mirror
So it is not so much fascinating that a cosmic constant here and there is miraculously tuned for our dance, but rather that our universe's particular dance is likely to be one of many possible though mostly unimaginable universes if all universes are the result of such a dance.
Just me turning the idea that fortuitous physical quantities and constants have an analogy any time one looks back at an actual history through a complex, adaptive space. In one's own life as in the life of the development of the Universe, subjective things happen that become objective reference points for future progressions. Order shakes out of possibility into ways that create new constants which guide behavior going forward. Over time one forgets (or has not yet discovered) that such early events were themselves accidental and arbitrary even as they become foundational and essential to one's current understanding.
And we should be careful to note that no creation seems likely to be witnessed except by some mirror which can arise within it composed of some small portion of that universes own stuff and also participating in a similar dance between order and chaos, knowledge and mystery.
Should we be amazed if the Universe is the way it is given that only amazing Universes could produce self-aware beings who could make such an assessment?
The knower reflects the known to the extent that its imperfect mirror allows it to. The knower is also one with the known and shapes it often unknowingly with it's own glass.
What we see is also what we are. We think as if objective knowledge is possible in some perfect way. We are enmeshed and compromised by the fact that we are always looking at something of ourselves whenever we decide to look. Our brains take a limited, continuous range of electromagnetic radiation and create a tri-chromatic discontinuous re-presentation of that radiation thereby changing what is into what we know.
So it is also always true that we see our own intelligence in every form of order we describe. Sometimes we think like a scientist and wonder "what a clever boy am i?" Sometimes we think like a believer "what greatness is our God?" But the two thoughts are opposite sides of the same coin.
The knower cannot be fundamentally separate from the known. If we see something is great then we elevate our own ability to know greatness by a self-referential appeal to our own authority.