Are you deliberately making a strawman of my post?
Nope........... but the 'strawman' suggestion is not a bad one, defensively.
You are failing to see my point. My post is about PRESSURE and not that there IS NO FREEDOM OF CHOICE. So, the consequences of me leaving was that all the JW's I knew do not contact me anymore. And I don't care whether they speak to me or not.
So you don't care about them, much?
So where's the pressure?
I know that if a JW leaves that others will be cautious about that person, but if that person returns they will be embraced with joy.
Anyway, they know that I'm a total dead loss and yet they still receive me at the Kingdom Hall on those rare occasions when I visit.
But, put yourself in the shoes of a person who was raised in the religion, got married and had kids and later on realised that he doesn't belief in it anymore. He wants to leave but at what cost? His family won't talk to him anymore. There is a chance that his wife and children leave him. If he shirks his "duties" in the faith people become suspicious of him. Imagine how he feels? If he leaves then he loses all those he loves.
You've just described my circumstances to perfection, only my late wife died, all the rest fits exactly; so what do you want to ask me?
Now can a person freely leave or is he pressured not to? If he wants to still speak to his parents because he loves them dearly he is forced to remain in the religion. True freedom of choice would be to leave without consequences when it comes to a faith based religion. And honestly a religion that employs those methods does not have a thick skin.
Did your folks dump you?
I decided what Jesus decided........ good and trusted friends are Father, Mother, Brother and Sister all.
Do you want me to quote verses?
With regards to 1984 you didn't know what about it I was referring to so I don't know why you gave such an irrelevent reply. Since you have read it I am sure you know the methods they used to control the masses like different ministries right?
You quote a book but you only want attention focused upon the bits that suit you?
What did you say now..... :-
Have you ever read 1984 by George Orwell?
Yes! Yonks ago.
That book shows the negative consequences of being pressured to conform which can be examined in real life studying various groups.
Oh please! Where I live the City Parking Enforcement office calls itself 'Parking Services' or something similar. We live in a World that uses Double Think wherever possible...... honestly!
If I don't conform tomorrow and wear a face mask I will get a £100 fine, and I know what our City Council will do with its new powers just legislated, it will need to harvest some of the lost millions over recent months.
The World is full of pressures and rules and laws....... and even the local Bowls club has a list of rules and pressures.
I hope your family return to your side, Israel, I certainly do, but mine are long gone, I'm afraid.