That is precisely why i use the word "you'll find yourself to be"But by awarding attributes to yourself it would appear that we're back to human vanity once more.
Its a journey to self discovery.,nothing of the vanity kind.
That is precisely why self discovery is much needed on this mother earth.(not just believing)The fact is we see no evidence of believers being more patient, loving, caring, calmer etc. I'm frequently told by angry believers that I'm stubbornly blind and will suffer for not 'opening my heart' and seeking God, which sort of contradicts any intended benevolence.
Lets ponder on a "nail" for an instance..
To some ,it is a sharp object that can cause utmost injuries,and if rusty,can even cause death..(This are those that says all the bad things about you,believing only they are right)
To a carpenter, a nail is of utmost importance,it helps him in building houses and at times forget about it's possible danger.(This are those that see you as being true to yourself and support your cause and see no fault in you)
And there are those that realise the importance of a nail ,but are also aware of its danger...
Point being,just b'cause someone follows and believed in a specific God or religion,it does not give them the right to judge others...(regardless)
And just b'cause you don't see evidence of believers being more patient, loving, caring, calmer does not mean that there is non...
Balance is the key and non-judgemental is the secret...