Matthew 5:31-32: “everyone who divorces his wife… forces her to commit adultery.”
5:38: “’an eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth’… offer no resistance.”
8:22: “Jesus told him, ‘Follow me, and let the dead bury the dead.”
21:43: “The kingdom of God taken away from you and given to another.”
Luke 16:16: “The Law and the prophets were in force until John.”
Hi metis, my friend. I've edited out all your quotes from the Epistles, since my comment was about what Jesus taught, and the Epistles are the teachings of the Apostles, especially Paul, and not Jesus. I know it can get confusing sometimes where the boundaries of the conversation lie. Thank you for spending so much time and effort on your reply -- it is appreciated.
eye for an eye... turn the other cheek:
I don't think this actually replaces eye for an eye, which is a societal obligation (not a personal one), but rather discusses how one shall respond on a personal level (rather than a societal level). I've heard those that accept this teaching argue that both fit together quite well. Personally, I have a hard time with turn the other cheek, because it invites other people to bully and abuse you, and that is an affront to your dignity as a human being made in the image of God. Basically, fighting back in self defense is no sin. But that's not the point. The point is that a person can believe both in society pursuing justice through the legal system, and turning the other cheek on a personal level.
Let the dead bury the dead...
I think there are many things attributed to Jesus that he didn't actually say, and this has a strong probability. It is a preposterous statement, since it breaks the commandment of honoring your parents. It is the kind of narcissistic demand a cult leader would make. Is that the kind of leader you think Jesus was? I mean, it could have been. Or perhaps he just was having an ornery day. But I really don't think that someone who told the rich man that the way to obtain eternal life was to keep the commandments would turn around and violate honoring one's parents.
the kingdom of God is taken away from you and given to another.
This is definitely not something Jesus would have taught. Genesis states that the covenant between God and Abraham is everlasting, that it will not end. And think about it -- what kind of God would break his covenants? The whole gist of the Prophets is kind of "you are unfaithful and disobedient and I'm going to punish you, but you are still beloved and I will restore you." God is faithful to Israel even when Israel is not faithful to God. You really can't honestly say you believe the Tanakh (OT) and then turn around and say that God has abandoned Israel.
The Law and the prophets were in force until John...
Again, I don't believe Jesus ever taught this. It contradicts other things he is reputed to have said, things that were far more likely to have been true, because he was an observant Jew. For example, he said that not even a brushstroke would fall away from the Law until heaven and earth shall fall away. That's pretty clear. Both your quote and my quote cannot both be true. I'm simply pointing out that the quote I used is more likely to be genuine.
Another good passage that articulates Jesus' position on the Law is Matthew 23:1-3. Jesus first acknowledges that it is the pharisees that sit on Moses seat, meaning that they have the authority to teach and interpret the law, as per Deuteronomy 17:8-13. Then he instructs his followers to do and observe ALL that they teach. ALL. That would be every law, and the Oral Torah as well.