I also found out it's my sister's fault that my nephew backed out of buying my parents house, as apparently the bank was telling him to look around, and my sister told him "you need to listen to your bankers and realtors." Now, mind you, his "bank" has been trying to nickle and dime, milk, gouge, and straight up screw him out of money at every singly turn with varying things including up to suggesting an adjusting-rate mortgage. AND she knew this was going on a month ago and said nothing. To no one.