The closest supposed example of a woman being a leader within God's Kingdom was the Prophetess Deborah. But, she actually led nobody. She just stood around and talked with The king while the Israeli Army did all of the work to kill off the Canaanites they were slaughtering. Deborah did not kill anyone.
The Book of Acts does mention female Disciples who were "Numbered with the Apostles." But, their function within The Apostles was not specified, and any sort of leadership by them cannot be assumed from that scant reference. They probably just stood around like Deborah and smiled in order to "seem nice."
So, what does this mean, today? When women try to teach and lead in the Church there always needs to be a man in charge of the situation. He can, if he chooses, let the woman think she is doing something important, but when she starts getting bossy, or goofy, or uppity because of her fancy clothes he needs to step up and remind her she is not in charge, regardless of how intense her emotions might be. She should be politely listened to when she talks about everything on her mind, and encouraged to keep trying, but then just given something to do to keep her busy.
Don't get me wrong, here. Women indeed are often very good managers of some kinds of situations and of children. That is what God made them to do. But, they are unable to see the Big Picture, and are unable to make decisions based upon God's Principles rather than on:
1.) Their feelings and hormones.
2.) Pragmatic reasons which "Seemed right to me!"
3.) The pressure of immediate circumstances which might make them "Feel uncomfortable as a woman ..."
4.) "I could not stop thinking about what my friends are saying!"
5.) "I was just trying to be nice!"
6.) "I thought that's what I was supposed to do!"
7.) "I didn't know what else to do!"
8.) "This is how it always has been done!"
9.) "I felt God was speaking to my heart!"
10.) "I didn't remember being told to do that!"
The Book of Acts does mention female Disciples who were "Numbered with the Apostles." But, their function within The Apostles was not specified, and any sort of leadership by them cannot be assumed from that scant reference. They probably just stood around like Deborah and smiled in order to "seem nice."
So, what does this mean, today? When women try to teach and lead in the Church there always needs to be a man in charge of the situation. He can, if he chooses, let the woman think she is doing something important, but when she starts getting bossy, or goofy, or uppity because of her fancy clothes he needs to step up and remind her she is not in charge, regardless of how intense her emotions might be. She should be politely listened to when she talks about everything on her mind, and encouraged to keep trying, but then just given something to do to keep her busy.
Don't get me wrong, here. Women indeed are often very good managers of some kinds of situations and of children. That is what God made them to do. But, they are unable to see the Big Picture, and are unable to make decisions based upon God's Principles rather than on:
1.) Their feelings and hormones.
2.) Pragmatic reasons which "Seemed right to me!"
3.) The pressure of immediate circumstances which might make them "Feel uncomfortable as a woman ..."
4.) "I could not stop thinking about what my friends are saying!"
5.) "I was just trying to be nice!"
6.) "I thought that's what I was supposed to do!"
7.) "I didn't know what else to do!"
8.) "This is how it always has been done!"
9.) "I felt God was speaking to my heart!"
10.) "I didn't remember being told to do that!"