The point of the article was that NO prayers get answered that scientists could discern.
This is the one area where believers make testable claims. Usually, they simply say that God is undetectable so we needn't bother to look for a god, but here they've claimed that their god DOES modify reality if prayed to, which claim has been falsified.
Contrary to the belief of some, and contrary to how it is written in some places, prayer is an appeal for God's will to be done. It is not a recipe, or magic, or boiling water on the stove.
Not in Christianity.
You can't test prayer like you can test for a virus.
Sure you can. As you've been told, it's been done.
No one suffers when they're dead because -- they're dead. Any statement to the contrary must be examined carefully with good sense.
Good sense is also called critical thought. Bringing good sense to the matter doesn't work out well for faith-based systems of belief.
How could God's ways NOT be higher than our ways if God is All-Knowing and All-Wise?
And if "God" doesn't exist, then what you are calling God's ways are the ways of other people, most of whom aren't very wise or knowing, and who don't care about you or me - only this imagined god and what they have been told (and believed) that it wants. Look at what's being reported by believers as God's ways on this thread. People have guessed that they are better ideas than they are because they believe they come from a god, which is the whole point of speaking through the voice of an alleged god. People stop thinking and simply obey. Mission accomplished.
If we are believers we take it on faith that everything that happens is ultimately for our own good, because God wants what is best for us.
How good a plan is that if this god doesn't exist? The church taught that kings were sitting on their thrones because God willed it, and God knows what's best for us. Humanism teaches that man must decide such issues. We've seen the fruits of each approach. The powerless serf and subject of the Middle ages was replaced by the autonomous citizen with a vote and guaranteed personal rights and freedoms.
The Sermon on the Mount teaches otherwise. It says to stand down, little man. Accept your lot. Meekness is blessed. Longsuffering is divine. If smitten, give your abuser the other cheek. Your reward comes after death. They promise!
My tradition, humanism, said no to this door-mattery, and took up arms against an abusive king. This was the beginning of modernity -the rejection of such books and their received "wisdom."
Most people who drop out of Christianity don't do so because they did not get what they wanted from God. They drop out because they finally come to the conclusion that the Christian doctrines make no sense at all and/or they realize that the Bible is not what they thought it was.
I went into Christianity thinking that the doctrine made no sense, but I suspended disbelief for several years. That never changed. Once it became clear that Christianity couldn't deliver on its promises, I returned to atheism. I concluded that the Abrahamic god doesn't exist. Does that story support or contradict you?
We can choose to do Gods will or reject salvation. Not everyone wants to survive.
What a burden they've saddled the believer with - the belief that he needs salvation. If you accept that - and why would you? - they own you.
It is Gods giving and lovable nature to share himself by giving life to his children who if they choose can grow up to be like God. Endless service, eternal adventure, experience and joy!
We call that promise of a great reward following death pie-in-the-sky, the promise that cannot be made in good faith or guaranteed, the promise that cannot be verified, and the promise that need not be kept to continue enticing people to conform generation after generation for some pie.
You haven't learned to forgive like Jesus forgave those who tortured and murdered him! If you ever do you will finally be free!
That's your model for forgiveness? There is nothing admirable about forgiving people as they kill you.
Besides, she's free now - free of that dreadful religion. And forgiveness is overrated if it means anything more than disengaging and moving on. Why forgive anything without a sincere expression of remorse, which is different from mere regret? You paint this picture of people burning with anger and rotting from the inside out because that which they disdained once they still disdain.
Maybe that's been your personal experience, but it's not been mine. The people I actively despised for a time are now people that I merely disrespect and avoid, and my rejection of them and what they stood for is wholesome and nurturing, not destructive. One was a former faithless girlfriend and employee who embezzled from me over thirty years ago. It didn't work out well for her, and it was at my hand.
Am I burning inside because of it? No. I'm still triumphantly telling the story. I still consider her vermin, but only when I think about her, and it gives me satisfaction. I'm sure you disapprove, but you have a different sense of how that feels and how it affects life thereafter and are bound to respect somebody else's values for you - value that serve them, not you (see the Sermon on the Mount discussion above).
You get too much milage out of being the victim!
I hope she continues to share her story whenever appropriate. Hopefully, she has saved copies of her posts for future cut-and-paste.
You said you want to be angry then stay angry! That is your choice!
I support her choice. It's done her good, and it's helped others understand Christianity in ways you won't get from believers. And she's happy.
This is like the blowback from Trump supporters, who will do anything to inhibit unflattering discourse about Trump, hence "Trump derangement syndrome" and "living in your head rent-free." It's intended to embarrass and inhibit those who express their righteous indignation at that failure of a life. But the argument is impotent there, too.