I agree with what you're saying to a point, but you're using the "codle and protect us" argument here again. That's not what Beadreaux and the others are saying. They are giving examples that absolutely negate any form of lesson learning or strength building.
How is allowing a completely innocent, helpless, child fall into the hands of someone who would do unspeakable things to them benevolent in any way, shape, or form? Yet this happens quite often. And it happens in such a way that the perpetrator gets off scott free, and the child dies a horrible death. If this god has good intentions, I fail to see them. Nor do view that as "codling them".