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"This Girl Was Kicked Out of Her Prom Because of This 'Revealing' Dress"

The Dress is . . . .


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Smart_Guy

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I can't see the pic (blocked here at work), but I'm interested; is there a dressing code followed in that prom? If there is, and she knows it, then regardless to being revealing or dressed like a nun, I'm afraid regulations have to be followed.

For some reason the source link is blocked here as well (this sucks). Does the source mention a dressing code regulation?
 

LuisDantas

Aura of atheification
Premium Member
I can't see the pic (blocked here at work), but I'm interested; is there a dressing code followed in that prom? If there is, and she knows it, then regardless to being revealing or dressed like a nun, I'm afraid regulations have to be followed.

For some reason the source link is blocked here as well (this sucks). Does the source mention a dressing code regulation?
Do you see the file attached to this post of mine? It comes from Skwim's previous post.
 

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LuisDantas

Aura of atheification
Premium Member
I find myself wondering ever more often if we do not need some new venues for expression of male interest in females.

Thinking about this piece of news reminds me of that, because it is so odd an occurrence.

It is a long shot, but may it be that the person was holding very specific expectations about how the girls would present themselves and felt trouble because that girl broke those expectations? Perhaps because she seemed proud and accepting of her blooming womanhood and he was conflicted from impulses of, I don't know, perhaps find her attractive in a way he had trouble keeping in check?

I guess it can be difficult for a man not to look like a fool when he finds a nearby woman attractive, particularly if the social situation does not encourage any expression of that attraction.

To the best of my understanding, proms tend to be just such a situation. Lots of nubile girls with just the right appearance and age to be a bit conflicted, lots of adults to perhaps feel a bit more than just conflicted. And no apparent structure to know how to handle a man who, say, stares a bit too long for confort at a certain girl.

Or maybe I am projecting or guessing too much. Any opinions?
 

savagewind

Veteran Member
Premium Member
I can't see the pic (blocked here at work), but I'm interested; is there a dressing code followed in that prom? If there is, and she knows it, then regardless to being revealing or dressed like a nun, I'm afraid regulations have to be followed.

For some reason the source link is blocked here as well (this sucks). Does the source mention a dressing code regulation?
I think that other girls could wear the same dress ok because they are not so buxom. It wasn't the dress that got her removed. It was her breasts.
I have a little interest in fashion and I can see that she would not have looked so well put together if her top was covered, because she is so big.
It is no easy task to look elegant being so big and I think she pulled it off perfectly.
 

Valjean

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I can't see the pic (blocked here at work), but I'm interested; is there a dressing code followed in that prom? If there is, and she knows it, then regardless to being revealing or dressed like a nun, I'm afraid regulations have to be followed.

For some reason the source link is blocked here as well (this sucks). Does the source mention a dressing code regulation?
You'll see when you get home that there's nothing at all revealing about her dress, by Western standards.

If I were her father I'd raise havoc (I might even let slip the dogs)!
 

Smart_Guy

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Premium Member
Do you see the file attached to this post of mine? It comes from Skwim's previous post.

Yes, now I can see it. Thanks!

It wasn't the dress that got her removed. It was her breasts.
I have a little interest in fashion and I can see that she would not have looked so well put together if her top was covered, because she is so big.

Did the prom management say that (in the source maybe), or is it a conclusion?

You'll see when you get home that there's nothing at all revealing about her dress, by Western standards.

If I were her father I'd raise havoc (I might even let slip the dogs)!

I don't mind the cultural standards (I respect it), but what about the dressing code of the prom? Is there a dressing code broken with that dress?

I'm not really making any conclusions here. I'm trying to link things together. It seems to me that posts are making hasty judgements, both with or against the case..
 

savagewind

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Yes, now I can see it. Thanks!



Did the prom management say that (in the source maybe), or is it a conclusion?



I don't mind the cultural standards (I respect it), but what about the dressing code of the prom? Is there a dressing code broken with that dress?

I'm not really making any conclusions here. I'm trying to link things together. It seems to me that posts are making hasty judgements, both with or against the case..
The dress code would have to have said, no parts of breasts must show, which I think would not fly.
If the dress code said modest wear only, then it is up to each person to define what that means. Most people who think with their head and not with their gender ID agree that what she has on is modest.
What does anyone think of beauty pageants?

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savagewind

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Premium Member
What about ballet? See her low cut outfit? Is it wrong? No breast fat showing? LOL
The issue is about that the young lady in the op is fat. I think she has a case for the Supreme Court.

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savagewind

Veteran Member
Premium Member
You honestly see no difference between that dress and being nude?
Wow.
You really do have some serious issues...
MAYBE the door bouncer had the fear that she might pop out. And THEN her nipple would show. That is almost naked. Yes?
 

savagewind

Veteran Member
Premium Member
But dear sir, the women in the pictures, their JOB is to be beautiful. There is a song about the wisdom of marrying an ugly woman.
The job of young women who go to prom is to look beautiful and elegant. It is true!
That is why some fathers (and even mothers) forbid their daughters from going to prom.
 

Smart_Guy

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Premium Member
The dress code would have to have said...

Ehm, all those are still assumptions. Was the dressing code for that prom revealed or not is what I believe will start connecting everything logically. I feel bad for those discriminated against, but we can't just sympathize with supposed victims and let emotions take over before links are connected together.
 
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