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"This Girl Was Kicked Out of Her Prom Because of This 'Revealing' Dress"
- Thread starter Skwim
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I agree. Do you think anyone had the gall to write a rule that says all breast fat must be covered over?
The TRUTH is that the girl is fat and that is what caused this whole controversy. It is about how fat women should not dress.
Is this immodest?
Is this immodest?
Should the woman above been denied entry also?
As in only fat ones but small ones are okay to not be covered? I think that would be not fair. Either all are allowed to be shown or all are allowed to be covered.
Yes. That is not how it works in the U.S.A.
Everyone in MY country has the right of the pursuit of happiness. If I was the girl in the original post looking so beautiful for the night it would make me happy.
For many years to come I would feel good about making myself up so nice that night. But now she must suffer post traumatic stress for some jerk face.
Dunno. The rules and regulations are the judge.
But honestly, I would say let her in ASAP
Then I think this is bad (I understand that you're saying yes, big ones are to be covered and small ones are okay to not be covered).
This is what I'm asking about; is that confirmed like in the source or by the prom management? Even if you say it is the truth, I still don't see a proof!
We have no proof. But my point is that she looks sexy because she is big breasted. If she was flat chested there is not way someone could have told her to cover-up.
In your mind put the same dress on a skinny girl. Try it.
I think that if it was required by the dress code to have chests and shoulders covered then she broke a rule and should not have been granted entry at all.
Thanda
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Well I've had a look at some of the dresses that were worn during the proms this school has had. This dress doesn't look much different from other dresses that have been worn at the school. Many strapless, many showing the chest, a bareback dress with a slit from half-way down the thigh.
So it does appear to be quite inconsistent.
That said these types of situations can be difficult. If the rule simply says "Don't wear revealing dresses" and it is generally understood that one of the things that should not be revealed is the breast - then it is the responsibility of each student to ensure they abide by that. And since each students body is different, how they go about that may also be different. Therefore it would not be a defense for say "My dress looks like everyone else's" since the rule doesn't say you dress must look like others - it simply says it must not reveal the breasts.
So it does appear to be quite inconsistent.
That said these types of situations can be difficult. If the rule simply says "Don't wear revealing dresses" and it is generally understood that one of the things that should not be revealed is the breast - then it is the responsibility of each student to ensure they abide by that. And since each students body is different, how they go about that may also be different. Therefore it would not be a defense for say "My dress looks like everyone else's" since the rule doesn't say you dress must look like others - it simply says it must not reveal the breasts.
As I said, rules and regulations are the judge. Not my view or yours. We still need to know all missing links before deciding. What if skinny girls are my type, and not the healthy full bodied ones? I'd see the former look sexy and the latter could completely turn me off. I'm still waiting for facts, not assumptions. We could be misjudging the prom management.
No. I am amazed that humankind has not grown up yet.Okay, now it's confirmed. You're teasing me, aren't you?
What I am feeling about this is called, "being pissed".
Thanda
Well-Known Member
The TRUTH is that the girl is fat and that is what caused this whole controversy. It is about how fat women should not dress.
Is this immodest?
If you're Mormon, no.
EDIT: Misread the question. I meant to say yes (as in, yes it is immodest)
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Sorry about that.
But remember (off-topic, this is just a reply to the quote above), Just because westerners believe Western standards are right, it does not mean that those standards are objectively factually right to all human kind. Standards differ from one culture to another. Give them the benefit of the doubt. The key here is to not impose our standards on others.
Anyway, I hope I can sleep peacefully with all those image you posted
Thanda
Well-Known Member
Misread the question - should have answered yes.