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To The Anti Gay Religious

Etritonakin

Etritonakin

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"There is also a newly-created social stigma (backed by the possibility of action) against the idea that homosexuality can be by choice. " -me

LuisDantas said:
Let's just say that I don't think that is a pressing matter to consider, not at all.
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Neither did gay-bashers believe social stigma (backed by the possibility of action) against gays was a pressing matter. It is ALWAYS a pressing matter. It will not help the cause. It will not help individuals. It is also an inroad for many other problems.

Perhaps it is against our nature.... counter-intuitive.... but adding momentum to the pendulum is never a good idea -even if it feels soooooooooooooooo freakinnnnnnnnn goooooooooooood!
 
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dgirl1986

dgirl1986

Big Queer Chesticles!
Etritonakin I know exactly why I was not happy. I had no romantic or sexual interest in men. I liked having them around as friends but that was it. I found myself in these relationships and wanted them to work out, not because I loved these guys but because I wanted to get married and have a family.

One thing that always happened was when I was with a guy, I would notice my romantic, intellectual and physical attraction to certain types of women. I would want to pursue that, but oviosuly did not because I am not a cheater. As soon as I became single it was too scary to face.
 
Etritonakin

Etritonakin

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dgirl1986 said:
Etritonakin I know exactly why I was not happy. I had no romantic or sexual interest in men. I liked having them around as friends but that was it. I found myself in these relationships and wanted them to work out, not because I loved these guys but because I wanted to get married and have a family.

One thing that always happened was when I was with a guy, I would notice my romantic, intellectual and physical attraction to certain types of women. I would want to pursue that, but oviosuly did not because I am not a cheater. As soon as I became single it was too scary to face.
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Still......


Why?

Honestly -that's not why. That is like 1 percent of why. That's mostly what -not why.

Break it down -how much of which was because of what? etc., etc.

You found male genitalia ugly? You found excessive hair disgusting? You had no emotional connection due to....? Regardless of genitalia, you found the basic female form more desirable than the male form? You could be with this or that person because of their body regardless of their mind.... or you could be with this or that person because of their mind regardless of their body.... you had some connection, so you wanted to express it and had no objections to bodily contact because.....


:shrug:
 
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suncowiam

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Etritonakin said:
Still......


Why?

Honestly -that's not why. That is like 1 percent of why. That's mostly what -not why.
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"I had no romantic or sexual interest in men"

Frankly, This would have suffice for me. This is the reason I broke up with some of my exes. "I had no romantic or sexual interest in [insert name]"
 
dgirl1986

dgirl1986

Big Queer Chesticles!
Saint Frankenstein said:
I think he's trying to see if you've had any "abnormalities" in your upbringing or have been somehow hurt by men so he can say that's what caused you to be a lesbian. :rolleyes:
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A common theme that has no basis. I had crushes on girl characters before any negative life events started happening.

suncowiam said:
dgirl1986, were you ever religious?
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I was a christian for 11 years and pagan for 3.
 
Etritonakin

Etritonakin

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Sorry -I am very slow at typing.... bumping my own post -is that allowed???


Originally Posted by dgirl1986
Etritonakin I know exactly why I was not happy. I had no romantic or sexual interest in men. I liked having them around as friends but that was it. I found myself in these relationships and wanted them to work out, not because I loved these guys but because I wanted to get married and have a family.

One thing that always happened was when I was with a guy, I would notice my romantic, intellectual and physical attraction to certain types of women. I would want to pursue that, but oviosuly did not because I am not a cheater. As soon as I became single it was too scary to face.
Still......


Why?

Honestly -that's not why. That is like 1 percent of why. That's mostly what -not why.

Break it down -how much of which was because of what? etc., etc.

You found male genitalia ugly? You found excessive hair disgusting? You had no emotional connection due to....? Regardless of genitalia, you found the basic female form more desirable than the male form? You could be with this or that person because of their body regardless of their mind.... or you could be with this or that person because of their mind regardless of their body.... you had some connection, so you wanted to express it and had no objections to bodily contact because.....


:shrug:
 
Etritonakin

Etritonakin

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suncowiam said:
"I had no romantic or sexual interest in men"

Frankly, This would have suffice for me. This is the reason I broke up with some of my exes. "I had no romantic or sexual interest in [insert name]"
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This applies to most of humanity for me -regardless of their gender. :eek:

Yet you had some sort of initial attraction.

Then you got to know them?

Then you got to know yourself?

Both?


(EDITED -apologies for any rudeness or offense)
 
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